pinkttulips Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 I have been hanging out with this guy a little bit as friends for about a month. I am interested in him more, but he's been really really busy with his job the last few weeks (14-16 hr days) and it has slowed a little but will be busy the next couple more weeks to come. He hasn't really flirted with me much until a couple days ago, at least I think its a flirt (been a while since I've dated). Anyway, we were texting while I was at work and I mentioned that I was late getting back from break and said "shhh dont tell, maybe they wont notice." Well he texted back that he already told (he doesn't work at the same place) and they suggested that he spank me. Well, I think that is a flirtatious comment, am I right? (I'm kinda new at this again) I replied back trying to be flirty saying "sounds fun." Now, I didn't want it going to where we are sexting, wont go there... but he hasn't texted me back yet at all. He is busy with his job, but then again, if a guy is interested, even being busy at his job, wouldn't he have texted back already? Or was he not flirting with me?
curlygirl40 Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 'Well I guess I'll have to be late more often if that is my punishment' would have been a good response too! I miss the flirt via text I have to get myself back in the game. LOL He's definitely flirty I think someone who had no interest wouldn't have said something like that. But it does border on the flirt/sexually suggestive obviously so if you don't want to go there, be careful. Not sure why he threw something like that out there but then didn't volley back.
Author pinkttulips Posted December 29, 2011 Author Posted December 29, 2011 Do you think my response back "sounds like fun" is something he took as a flirty, oh she's interested type thing. I didn't think of your response, that's a good one!
Author pinkttulips Posted December 30, 2011 Author Posted December 30, 2011 any opinions from some guys out there?
curlygirl40 Posted December 30, 2011 Posted December 30, 2011 Well your response definitely shows interest, not sure how he could read it any other way. But I'm a girl, hopefully some guys will chime in.
killyman Posted December 30, 2011 Posted December 30, 2011 I'm a guy and if it were me who got a reply like that I'd be happy with it. Couldn't possibly have scared him off anyway. If a man started a flirty conversation like that there's no way somebody who replied in an equally flirty way would put him off.
Ninjainpajamas Posted December 30, 2011 Posted December 30, 2011 Yes, he took it as a flirt and yes he flirted with you prior. Although he is busy and probably smirked and went back to his work. I've worked long busy hours myself, I know how time can fly and I know how hard it can be to keep in touch while working when there's so many other things on my mind. However even though I worked those hours (mind you i work extremely physical and mentally challenging work, and sales) I was still able to call after work or even hang out after at times. I still have days off so what about those? even though the first day off I prob need to spend most of it recovering. My opinion is that he isn't too interested, he might like you or be on the fence. Always be wary though of people who are afraid to communicate and put in effort in the beginning...they either have something else going on or you're kind of a backup. Sorry to say but that's how I read it, I think you should be more aggressive and maybe try to set something up..like a day to go out and if that falls through due to excuses and lack of effort on his part then I'd walk away. I mean if he does reciprocate later on you weren't a priority when he was busy.
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