singlelife Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 When you go out to clubs or party's women are always on a weed chase. They say it makes the sex better. Is that correct? Anyway they be smoking a lot and I hear stories of hot women sleeping with guys because they smoked all night.
ditzchic Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 Between the ages of 18-22ish I think most girls or OK-excited about weed. After 25ish it becomes a turn off. I'm 29 and now a guy that smokes weed is a deal breaker for me.
ThaWholigan Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 When you go out to clubs or party's women are always on a weed chase. They say it makes the sex better. Is that correct? Anyway they be smoking a lot and I hear stories of hot women sleeping with guys because they smoked all night. Depends on what crowd you run with. I'm an occasional weed smoker (used to smoke a lot, cut down drastically). Because of the crowd I am usually around, I'm surrounded by men and women of varying ages who smoke weed. Sometimes I meet girls who are like "uggh, I hate smokers". I used to avoid those girls like the plague .
eerie_reverie Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 I've never touched any type of drug in my life. Any gal that did would be a 'loser' in my eyes. Forutnately the majority of desirable woman, of any age, are not at parties smoking weed. Expand your horizons and the quality of females youe meet...join a hiking group, some activity club, etc. Want to find the hottest babes...easy....they are the ones leading the healthiest lifestyles. You can use thc and be healthy. I usually take a hit off my vaporizer before a long run. I've never thought of pot as much of a party drug tho. It makes most people more introverted.
TigerCub Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 The people you describe as being really excited for weed - must be young - its fun to experiment and try things, so that could be it. I'm surprised at the claim that weed makes sex better - weed makes me really sleepy, so I doubt I'd be bringing my A game Its not a turn on really if a guy smokes weed. I'm rather indifferent, but if he does it on a daily basis - that's actually a turn off.
InJest Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 I know a lot of older smokers in there late twenties and far beyond that. Both men and women, and for the most part they're competitive athletes too. Most don't smoke very frequently, though for some reason the most intense athletes also smoke the most. Anyway, it's certainly not impressive to anyone, and definitely not a good way to try and get laid. It undoubtedly makes sex better, but you have to get the sex part on your own.
dasein Posted December 30, 2011 Posted December 30, 2011 Young women out in the party scene are more likely to be into drugs as not, specifically blow, ecstasy and weed. Weed does make sex better IME, with more intense orgasms, and have heard same from many women, though it affects people differently. Lots of people use weed and downers to come down off their party drugs when they are ready to slow down or crash. EDIT: wanted to add that these types of women make godawful GFs and will BBD you at the drop of a hat unless you are an actual dealer.
eerie_reverie Posted December 30, 2011 Posted December 30, 2011 the most intense athletes also smoke the most. I smoke and work out for the same reasons. I am high-strung as fcvk and they both help me chill out.
Feelin Frisky Posted December 30, 2011 Posted December 30, 2011 Weed will always be hip to a certain age and life-style group like 20-35 y/o females who want to find out what it's all about. I was very into weed in high school but started losing my compulsion for it during my first real LTR in my mid 20's. I found it made my short-term memory so bad that I embarrassed myself a few times--like when I was 32 and had a hot date with someone I had been liking in my night school class and after the sate she lit up, I toked and within a few moments I had totally forgotten her name. That looked idiotic. Being much older now I don't include weed in my thinking or planning but under the right circumstances, I could have a toke or two. Never driving though.
CarrieT Posted December 30, 2011 Posted December 30, 2011 Hate it, hate it, hate it... Every guy I've been with that smoked a lot couldn't keep an erection.
Emilia Posted December 30, 2011 Posted December 30, 2011 I dislike it. It's probably ok in your 20s as most things are but being 39 I have seen what drugs do long term and I'm convinced weed affects your memory and cognitive functions long term.
Forever Learning Posted December 30, 2011 Posted December 30, 2011 (edited) In my life I always witnessed more guys smoking marijuana than women. Most of those people who liked marijuana were drinkers as well. The times I tried smoking it (maybe a dozen times ?) I became paranoid and experienced slight hallucinations. The paranoia was always a bad experience of course and it lasted for hours. I did alot of research on marijuana in the past and read that 1 out of every 4 women who smoked marijuana became paranoid, which was a higher percentage than for men. I have seen videos on YouTube people made in which they stated they experience paranoia while on marijuana as well (videos by men). The women I knew who liked to smoke marijuana always had some personal problems they were trying to numb themselves from, same deal for the guys, but especially the women. Just my life experience I'm relating here. My ex-husband smoked for 3 decades, since his early teens. It screwed up his health (lungs), cognitive function and decision making abilities, made him unmotivated, and a part of him remains permanently emotionally stunted back at the time that he first started smoking it (early teens). That is to say, a part of him never really matured from that time period, like he stopped learning or maturing once he started the daily marijuana gig. He was a daily smoker and so always somewhat mentally numb and high. It also slowed his reflexes so it contributed to his many, many car accidents he was involved in. Recent chest x-rays revealed he had developed early emphysema / COPD in some part of his lungs (surprise, surprise) and he never had any real lung capacity or cardiovascular endurance which becomes evident during sexual activity (out of breath in a hurry). He too thought marijuana enhanced sex in the mental realm of things. Might be true. On the flip side, other research I read indicated it likely contributed to his long term Premature Ejaculation problems. Just sharing research I have read and experiences from my life. To each his own. Edited December 30, 2011 by Forever Learning
DonJuanInc Posted December 30, 2011 Posted December 30, 2011 No reliable evidence that weed has any negative effects. No one has died from it, ever. The way you talk about it seems strange. Maybe it's different where you are, but saying "I have some weed" won't turn on any girl I know of. Club rats react this way to coke, but I wouldn't want that type of woman. Sex can feel more intense when you're both high. Tons of people I know are regular tokers and very successful. Grad school, own businesses etc.
Feelin Frisky Posted December 30, 2011 Posted December 30, 2011 As for sex, I never felt that it took anything away and most often made the experience even more enjoyable because it made the visual parts--the imagination so much more intense. Not everyone experiences it the same way so it's not necessarily an aphrodisiac for everyone. What happens is that there is a hemispherical shift in the brain in which the left brain which keeps us in sync with our sense of time and place somewhat yields to the right brain which is dominant during our dream states. To many this can trigger a fearful reaction because they see themselves in an entirely different light and through a different lens of time and space and have attacks of guilt for their recent behavior. Some experience that as an attack of conscience but mistakenly call it "paranoia". It's feels like fear and one can psyche one's self into alarm if not hysteria, but paranoia is a whole different dynamic. One does not become paranoiac under the use of marijuana unless he or she is predisposed to paranoia in general--experiencing the ego-centric assumption that the self is so much more important than it is that strangers care to know what you do or think.
Author singlelife Posted December 30, 2011 Author Posted December 30, 2011 As for sex, I never felt that it took anything away and most often made the experience even more enjoyable because it made the visual parts--the imagination so much more intense. Not everyone experiences it the same way so it's not necessarily an aphrodisiac for everyone. What happens is that there is a hemispherical shift in the brain in which the left brain which keeps us in sync with our sense of time and place somewhat yields to the right brain which is dominant during our dream states. To many this can trigger a fearful reaction because they see themselves in an entirely different light and through a different lens of time and space and have attacks of guilt for their recent behavior. Some experience that as an attack of conscience but mistakenly call it "paranoia". It's feels like fear and one can psyche one's self into alarm if not hysteria, but paranoia is a whole different dynamic. One does not become paranoiac under the use of marijuana unless he or she is predisposed to paranoia in general--experiencing the ego-centric assumption that the self is so much more important than it is that strangers care to know what you do or think. This seems to be the case from females I have asked about it since starting this thread. It's only a turn off if someone tokes so bad they just lay on the couch for a month. Career people have fun smoking and women appreciate the difference. However if you live in a trailer and collect welfare and get high daily you probably ain't gonna get a good woman.
ShannonMI Posted December 30, 2011 Posted December 30, 2011 When you go out to clubs or party's women are always on a weed chase. They say it makes the sex better. Is that correct? Anyway they be smoking a lot and I hear stories of hot women sleeping with guys because they smoked all night. It's not a turn on for me. I don't smoke it and I hate dating pot heads. I tried weed for the first time this summer and I didn't like it. I laughed for like 20 minutes straight and then I started crying. It was too weird for me. I also dated a pot head and I will say that I will never date another. This particular guy had bipolar and the weed made his symptoms a lot worse. I ended up dumping him because he wouldn't stop smoking it. I just feel like pot makes you a f*cking loser. You lose all motivation and turn into a dead beat. At least that's what I see with the pot heads I know. So no it's not a turn on. Not in the least. If anything it's a deal breaker. If you smoke dope, you won't be dating this girl:rolleyes:
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