quietGuy13 Posted December 28, 2011 Posted December 28, 2011 I had strippers starting in 2005. Total is 20. That's it. No sex, just striptease and some lapdances. Girls from what i hear here and elsewhere, get jealous and mad really easily and think Guys who've gotten strippers are nasty or stupid. Would girls care about this ? i'm male in my 30s
lululucy Posted December 28, 2011 Posted December 28, 2011 I had strippers starting in 2005. Total is 20. That's it. No sex, just striptease and some lapdances. Girls from what i hear here and elsewhere, get jealous and mad really easily and think Guys who've gotten strippers are nasty or stupid. Would girls care about this ? i'm male in my 30s How have you "gotten" strippers if you haven't had sex with them? You've gone to strip clubs and gotten lapdances? I find it weirder that you've kept track of how many lapdances you've gotten than the fact that you've gone at all.
ShannonMI Posted December 28, 2011 Posted December 28, 2011 I had strippers starting in 2005. Total is 20. That's it. No sex, just striptease and some lapdances. Girls from what i hear here and elsewhere, get jealous and mad really easily and think Guys who've gotten strippers are nasty or stupid. Would girls care about this ? i'm male in my 30s When you are a male in your 30's and you've never been with a women because of your "learning disabilities" and how unattractive you are, (your words, not mine) who cares if you go to strippers or escorts to get your rocks off? You gotta do what you gotta do. Now if you were to actually start dating women and you continued to do these things, that would be a problem.
Oxy Moronovich Posted December 28, 2011 Posted December 28, 2011 (edited) Which is it, strippers or escorts? Never talk to women about going to stripclubs, seeing escorts, or watching porn. It's only okay if they work in the sex industry. If they ask you if you like that stuff then lie. I got three 8GB flashdrives worth of porn. When my recent chick asked me if I watched porn, I said, "I've viewed it a couple times but it's not my thing. I somehow find it a little too repulsive for my tastes." Edited December 28, 2011 by Oxy Moronovich
lululucy Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 Which is it, strippers or escorts? Never talk to women about going to stripclubs, seeing escorts, or watching porn. It's only okay if they work in the sex industry. If they ask you if you like that stuff then lie. I got three 8GB flashdrives worth of porn. When my recent chick asked me if I watched porn, I said, "I've viewed it a couple times but it's not my thing. I somehow find it a little too repulsive for my tastes." Yeah, lying is such a healthy way to have a relationship. You could also try dating people with similar value sets.. I used to go to strip clubs with my ex and his friends every other month, I think it's fun. And the strippers are always really nice to me. Porn likewise means zero. Escorts, on the other hand, I would have a problem with. I would still like to know what the OP means by "had" escorts when he didn't sleep with them.
Author quietGuy13 Posted December 29, 2011 Author Posted December 29, 2011 "I would still like to know what the OP means by "had" escorts when he didn't sleep with them." Well you're not reading my message. I said Dance and Do striptease and lapdances. That's what i mean by "HAD" one time the girl was not even pretty so instead of lapdance/strip, she was boring so instead of that i just played keyboard for her .
ShannonMI Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 "I would still like to know what the OP means by "had" escorts when he didn't sleep with them." Well you're not reading my message. I said Dance and Do striptease and lapdances. That's what i mean by "HAD" one time the girl was not even pretty so instead of lapdance/strip, she was boring so instead of that i just played keyboard for her . An female escort is a hooker. A woman you f*ck. A stripper is a woman that dances for you. Two different things.
iris219 Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 " one time the girl was not even pretty so instead of lapdance/strip, she was boring so instead of that i just played keyboard for her . This was probably the weirdest night of her life.
lululucy Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 An female escort is a hooker. A woman you f*ck. A stripper is a woman that dances for you. Two different things. Exactly. This was probably the weirdest night of her life. Oh god, I can't even imagine.
Pizzaman81 Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 I had strippers starting in 2005. Total is 20. That's it. No sex, just striptease and some lapdances. Girls from what i hear here and elsewhere, get jealous and mad really easily and think Guys who've gotten strippers are nasty or stupid. Would girls care about this ? i'm male in my 30s And how would they know about this if you don't tell them? I'd say don't say a word
Pasttense Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 Yeah, lying is such a healthy way to have a relationship. I think it likely that if a guy found a girlfriend who did a striptease for him, he would no longer have any interest in attending striptease clubs. So there wouldn't be any problems. Conversely if a girl said she detested football, and a guy lied and said he didn't care for it either--the problems would show up when football season starts up.
kaylan Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 Stripclubs a girl might except since a lot of guys have been to one. Escorts though is another ball game, because normally guys who get escorts tend to sleep with them. So this might make a girl suspicious. I wouldnt offer the information without being asked about it. But dont lie to her though. Lying is never good. Just say youve been to a few strip clubs and gotten some viewing fun but never any touching fun.
Sanman Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 Much as many people here have said in other threads, you reserve the right not to discuss your sex history (or lack thereof?) with a future partner. That said, most of the women I have dated of been friends with have no problems with porn and only a few have problems with strippers. Escorts are a different story.
chryssy83 Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 I couldn't even begin to guess how a 13-15 year old girl would perceive this revelation.... But grown women would think it was weird that you talked about strippers....and that you counted. Guys who frequent strip clubs don't interest me. But I sort of assume a guy has been to one before....and also that he won't discuss it with me in any detail.
Ross MwcFan Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 "I would still like to know what the OP means by "had" escorts when he didn't sleep with them." Well you're not reading my message. I said Dance and Do striptease and lapdances. That's what i mean by "HAD" one time the girl was not even pretty so instead of lapdance/strip, she was boring so instead of that i just played keyboard for her . Hmmmm, trying to imagine what you mean. Was there a full size keyboard already in there and then you just started playing it? Or did you bring a mini keyboard along with you?
oaks Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 Would girls care about this ? You're already having zero luck in getting women with all your other problems, so this isn't your problem and it isn't worth worrying about! Still, probably best not to mention this on your first date.
phineas Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 I had strippers starting in 2005. Total is 20. That's it. No sex, just striptease and some lapdances. Girls from what i hear here and elsewhere, get jealous and mad really easily and think Guys who've gotten strippers are nasty or stupid. Would girls care about this ? i'm male in my 30s What? Is this on your permanent record or something they can look up? Anything like that is in the vault, hell it's under the pyramids lost to time & never to be found. It's probably why I don't judge people for their sexual past when they tell me something freaky. Well, as long as it didn't include family members or more than two other people at the same time. Then I get scared off.
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