Too Many Fat Women!

[mesmerized]

Move somewhere else? There are not many fat young women/men where I live!

[iris219]

This is great for women, as they can pack on extra lbs and still have a lot of guys chasing them.

 

This thread is inspiring me to finish a half full bag of Hersey kisses.

[dasein]

I think it's an epidemic, I think women in the states have it made, thanks to over the top feminism. Women can't do anything wrong and everything a man does is assumed as negative. And now we're supposed to be ok with women who balloon up and yet still want a handsome and fit man, I find that repulsive and hate when women say "look at me for what I am on the inside not the outside".

 

The kind of sentiment expressed above truly saddens me. I am soooo sadsadsad. You must just hatehatehate women! Either that or you aren't a real man, are gay, have a small penis, are threatened by independent women, are shallow, can't get a date... something must be wrong with you because nothing at all is ever wrong with women no matter how big and beautiful they are!

 

Just thought I'd save the usual suspects some typing. Lawlz.

[Shaun-Dro]

I've been having a good time going to holiday parties and going out for a few drinks and dancing as well.

 

What I'm noticing is that the majority of women are fat. I mean, really, really, really fat. As in, even white girls have massive asses and ginormous guts. They're literally knocking over plants and vases in economy sized apartments. They have their own center of gravity and shake the ground.

 

One girl got mad since I didn't take her photo from the right angle and "made her look fat." Hun, the camera angle wasn't responsible for making you look fat, you ARE fat!

 

Conversely, about a 1/3 of the girls are slim.

 

I would say that staying home and jerkin' it would be an option, but even many of the porn starlets are now packing a few extra pounds as well.

 

This is great for women, as they can pack on extra lbs and still have a lot of guys chasing them. After all, what other choice do men have? Sex tours for a couple of weeks? Becoming expats?

 

Chubby chasers are becoming the norm now. These are the sad days of dating. Guys chasing ugly women, fat women, undesirable women in general with nasty personalities. There must be an alternative.

 

I made a thread a while back about women with fat bellies, getting drunk, looking and behaving anything other than a woman. It is pathetic seeing how hard she rejects who she is in place of competing with us men.

[CocoaBrown]

This thread is inspiring me to finish a half full bag of Hersey kisses.

 

Pass me some!

[Fondue]

You're absolutely right. The difference between USA and Europe is absolutely night and day. I love the travel, and whenever I fly over to Europe, the one thing that bothers me is that how many healthy, beautiful women there are compared to America. It's hard to find a woman (and man, for that matter) that is out of shape. You really have to go out of your way and look for people who are not healthy... ANd if you do, more likely than not, it's a tourist.

 

I think part of it is that our culture is shifting a little. Thicker woman are appreciated by so many more men, and that's absolutely fine. That's great for them. I'm all for it. There are still many of us though that prefer a slimmer girl, and you can't fault them for it.

[Dazdnconfuzed]

Fat, skinney, inbetween,,,

 

I LOVE WOMEN!!!

 

My net is soo wide that I have never been without a female in my life. I love hot women, I love chubby women, I love women with personalities, I love women with quirks, I love strong women, I love vulnerable women.

 

The scent, the walk, the eyes, the smile, the sexuality... ALL OF IT!!!

[Ninjainpajamas]

You're absolutely right. The difference between USA and Europe is absolutely night and day. I love the travel, and whenever I fly over to Europe, the one thing that bothers me is that how many healthy, beautiful women there are compared to America. It's hard to find a woman (and man, for that matter) that is out of shape. You really have to go out of your way and look for people who are not healthy... ANd if you do, more likely than not, it's a tourist.

 

I think part of it is that our culture is shifting a little. Thicker woman are appreciated by so many more men, and that's absolutely fine. That's great for them. I'm all for it. There are still many of us though that prefer a slimmer girl, and you can't fault them for it.

 

Don't get me started on European women, I find them sexy as hell. They walk around during daily life looking great, and actually care about what they look like...not just when they're hitting the club or a night out on the town with their whorish friends, then only to dress like a street walker.

 

European women also appear more confident and level-headed where American women are idealist and want everything served on a platter as if they're entitled...and what to give in return? some fat rolls and shoving their faces around Los Angeles trying new foods and drink...damn foodies man I tell ya!

 

Our culture is shifting...because of the sheer weight! However I tend to see heavier women than men more often than not, at least It's what I notice. And at least a lot of men don't wear clothes that hug their rolls because they want to feel skinnier. I try to maintain an appealing body-weight because that's how I feel it should be if I am to attract women and satisfy my own desire not to look like the nutty professor. The problem is though, thicker women tend to get thicker...and thicker...and thicker...man imagine if they're looking like Fiona from Shrek now as being single what they're going to look like when they're married and don't care anymore! yikes!

 

And to Dazdnconfuzed...as with all things, when you are starving anything would do to eat...however when you have options, you become more selective and picky.

Edited December 29, 2011 by Ninjainpajamas

[somedude81]

You're post is just plain rude to women. If you can't figure out why, you're fat in the head.

 

Have a little empathy for women. Don't you think they all want to be fit and healthy? Its not easy for everyone.

 

I'm a fit guy but I'd never call a woman fat. Even if she was overweight.

That's bullsh*t and you know it.

 

While I don't know for sure, I bet the vast majority of overweight women don't even try at all to lose the weight. And why should they? There will always be men who are willing to lower their standards just to get some pussy. If men refused to date fat women, guess what would happen.

 

Frankly, I find obese women disgusting. Their body is completely wrong and it is a very good indicator that they are lazy and have poor self-control. Yes I know for some women it's genetics. But there is no way that all the obese women out there, are like that because of a condition. They need to put down the double beef patty burger and diet coke and just start exercising.

 

Also, because I know somebody is going to get on my case, saying that I should have sympathy or whatever for fat women because I do poorly with women and blame my height. Or that I should be open to dating them because I don't have options.

 

I'll say this, being short is not a choice. If there was anything I could do to get taller that didn't involve painful and expensive surgery, I would have done it already. And yes, that does mean that I think the majority of fat women are that way because they chose to be.

 

Most of all, I absolutely hate the fact that a short man is considered to be the equivalent of an obese woman in terms of attractiveness. If I could diet and exercise my way to gain height, I'd be 8 feet tall.

[Dust]

Yes there are too many "fat" people. It all has to do with the fact that its been made cheaper and easier to eat junk. That our tax dollars go to serving junk food to children in school. That our government nutrition guide lines would allow you to have a coke with every meal, sugar cereal for breakfast, pizza for lunch and then a burger for dinner.

 

I don't find fat women attractive. I like slender women. If a women is chubby but has good shape she can still be very sexy. When a woman gets a certain fatness she loses all shape, even her breasts if big have no shape to them. I would never date some one I'm not attracted to and I have to wonder how some of the guys date some of the girls I see. On the split side there are plenty of very fat guys and it seems to get less flack.

[mesmerized]

Yes there are too many "fat" people. It all has to do with the fact that its been made cheaper and easier to eat junk. That our tax dollars go to serving junk food to children in school. That our government nutrition guide lines would allow you to have a coke with every meal, sugar cereal for breakfast, pizza for lunch and then a burger for dinner.

 

I don't find fat women attractive. I like slender women. If a women is chubby but has good shape she can still be very sexy. When a woman gets a certain fatness she loses all shape, even her breasts if big have no shape to them. I would never date some one I'm not attracted to and I have to wonder how some of the guys date some of the girls I see. On the split side there are plenty of very fat guys and it seems to get less flack.

 

Yes, women don't walk around talking about how much they hate fat guys...they just don't date them. I would never date a fat guy but at the same time, I don't care enough to belittle him or talk about how much I hate how he looks.

[PlumPrincess]

I'd like to point out that I didn't take the bait on this thread. I said aprox a year ago that I was going to lighten up on heavy people. So far I've kept my word.

 

May I ask for a pat on the back for being such a great guy?

Pat, pat!!!!

[PlumPrincess]

Yes, women don't walk around talking about how much they hate fat guys...they just don't date them. I would never date a fat guy but at the same time, I don't care enough to belittle him or talk about how much I hate how he looks.

Exactly! I see no point in going in on and on how unattractive you find someone.

 

Ok, I will add some honesty here, if I were to go to a party where two thirds of the men were overweight, I'd also be disappointed. But since very likely also two thirds of the women at the party would be overweight, I might just complain about the general weight issue. Or I wouldn't say anything at all and just concentrate on the slim men.

Edited December 29, 2011 by PlumPrincess

[Eve]

Wow.. talk about horrid comments.

 

Even though I am careful, I do understand that some people go through hell with their weight! So, I agree with the connection to weight issues being part of the addictive cycle.

 

In terms of attractiveness I have been attracted to one person who was over weight in my lifetime - because he was really lovely with strong features.

 

I don't know. Stick to what you find attractive but be kind at very least. When looking at others I tend to think that it could have been me.

 

Culture and cheap food has a lot to blame for the rise in larger children and people methinks. I hope it doesn't get too out of control where I live. I hear it is very bad in the US. All in all I only know a couple of people in passing who are seriously overweight, most are just average. I have not seen an increase in younger people. Most look great!

 

Take care,

Eve x

[gaius]

I think you know there was a choice there to be a tad cold or cruel and take some heat for it or say nothing. So, I'll try to make a point without it sounding like I'm "bitching" (out of respect). There is no such thing as "fat people". There are only obese persons. There are a million reasons why various individuals wind up obese at one time or another in their lives if not every day of their life. The one consideration that trumps all the rest is that we're not all somehow created or manufactured and given the same mental software but instead come into the world in a bag of guts one at a time as a result of a genetic compositing process which almost never matches ideal genes with ideal genes. W3e shouldn't pat ourselves on the back for not being obese if we are not because no one choose that for themselves. No one. We almost universally agree that fat is ugly and kids don't have to be taught to hurt and taunt other kinds who are obese--there's something built in that finds obesity disgusting or vile.

 

I don't think any one's aesthetics will change because of the type of logic I try to convey about obesity but I've suffered from it all my life and wouldn't wish it on anyone. It's like an addiction that you can't escape EVER. And it kills. If it were as simple as dropping the Twinkies and getting on the treadmill, you wouldn't see the tubs of lard there are every which way you look in populated areas, but it's a lot deeper, more complex and incessant than winning one small battle with one Twinky on one day. It's about never learning how to turn off something that goes off by itself automatically for everyone else--the urge to eat.

 

No hard feelings.

I agree that it's a complex issue, but I think Shannon and others who share her attitude do much more to help the obese then those who try relating and point to the latest study on brain chemistry to show they really can't help it. Do you really think you would be as successful as you are with your weight loss if society was more accepting of big fatsos? If people out in public didn't give you disdainful looks or make fun of you behind your back? I know I'd probably be at the chinese buffet everyday for lunch if I could get away with being fat and still command respect. So hurrah for Shannon and everyone else who doesn't put up with obesity, it's important to be unsympathetic sometimes.

[Tony]

This is enough discussion about women who are overweight. Just as many men are overweight. What each person's opinion of them is and why is a personal matter. This thread is insulting and hurtful to a lot of people and really shouldn't remain. But the discussion has taken place and we'll just close it. I do understand that weight and appearance is one factor in attraction, putting a microscope on it is not necessary. Is something that just is!