U1987 Posted December 27, 2011 Posted December 27, 2011 If I expand my OKC search area to 50 miles radius, I actually get a pretty decent sized selection of girls who are on OKC looking for Casual Sex. These girls look really cute on their profiles, but I'm really skeptical. They describe everything they like to do sexually in vivid, graphic x-rated detail, but at the same time I'm thinking "too good to be true; there must be some awful, awful catch." Scams maybe? Then again, I did see an old FWB from 2 years back on OKC with a similar profile. How can I investigate these options? How do I determine if these girls are for real?
Author U1987 Posted December 27, 2011 Author Posted December 27, 2011 Just thought of this; tell me what you think of this plan. This would be my first email Hey ______. I'm ______. I gotta say, I'm a little impressed by your profile; I can tell you're decisive, and totally fearless. I like that. When I first joined here, I was a bit surprised to see how many girls our age were already trying to find the perfect husband. Knowing there are some girls who just want to have fun is a total relief. So tell me, I haven't been to (town where she lives) in a while. What's good in (town where she lives)? After some chatting for a while, I'll request that she email a picture of herself holding a piece of paper with a word or sentence I've provided as proof that she's real. Your thoughts?
Lobouspo Posted December 27, 2011 Posted December 27, 2011 I work in LE and one thing from a practical standpoint is just make sure you meet in a public place even if you are a guy. The women who wanna "hookup" use that line to lure gullible and lonely men into a dangerous and untenable situation (ie robberies, assaults and worse) I also have an OKC profile and have met a couple of hotties, but usually if it sounds too good to be true it is. I think alot of the women on the free sites looking for sex just put that in their profile to get alot of responses and get an ego boost. If you do decide to meet one of these women please be careful. A guy in my area thought he was meeting a hottie for sex that he met on a chatline..was nearly beaten to death by a couple of goons..always err on the side of caution.
Author U1987 Posted December 27, 2011 Author Posted December 27, 2011 I work in LE and one thing from a practical standpoint is just make sure you meet in a public place even if you are a guy. The women who wanna "hookup" use that line to lure gullible and lonely men into a dangerous and untenable situation (ie robberies, assaults and worse) I also have an OKC profile and have met a couple of hotties, but usually if it sounds too good to be true it is. I think alot of the women on the free sites looking for sex just put that in their profile to get alot of responses and get an ego boost. If you do decide to meet one of these women please be careful. A guy in my area thought he was meeting a hottie for sex that he met on a chatline..was nearly beaten to death by a couple of goons..always err on the side of caution. Wow, I never even thought of that! But likr I said, what do you think of my first email idea and my technique for asking for a photo?
grkBoy Posted December 27, 2011 Posted December 27, 2011 How can I investigate these options? How do I determine if these girls are for real? Take chances and email them. If they're hookers/escorts, then the payment details will come out and you can simply decline. If it's fugly women using fake photos, then you'll know when you either webcam or meet up. I'm a skeptic. I just don't believe any hot woman would use a dating site to find sexual partners. I believe they have so many options offline that they could just go out one night and easily bring someone home if they wanted to. I'd more believe they're escorts looking for Johns.
bac Posted December 28, 2011 Posted December 28, 2011 (edited) How can I investigate these options? How do I determine if these girls are for real? It is easy. If they are for real, they will meet you right away without any questions. Make an appointment with them, for example, ask them for a drink. IMO, They might be real if: - they are going to make some money this way - they are in a very difficult situation (breakup, divorce, death in family, lost their job and other stuff like that) - they have psychiatric problems( drugs, personality disorder, bipolar, depression) - they are very naive, unexperienced, have no common sense -they are very ugly and hopeless to get laid -they are married ( have no photos in their profiles). They would send you their photos easily. Edited December 28, 2011 by bac
Author U1987 Posted December 29, 2011 Author Posted December 29, 2011 I don't have a webcam, but what do you think about my idea of asking for an emailed photo of them holding a piece of paper with something I asked them to write to confirm they're real?
silvermercy Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 I was on OKC a while ago but I deactivated my account as all I got was booty-call messages and was never looking for that. I still got then even after I stated clearly on my profile I was not interested in casual relationships. But since I got hundreds of messages a day anyway, that made me think females on OKC were much less than men (or maybe not, I dunno...) Basically, I've heard the same thing as the others: legitimate females on casual sex websites are usually rare. They have no need to be there or they just prefer normal dating sites for romance. All the profile pics of hot women these sites have are to lure males to hire escorts/prostitutes. And yes, also be careful about traps. This has happened a lot. You have no choice but to send that message. You'll understand soon from the responses. But still be careful.
Author U1987 Posted December 29, 2011 Author Posted December 29, 2011 What about the girls who have "Casual Sex" selected in their "Looking For" section but ALSO "Long/Short Term Dating" and also have normal, non-sexual profiles? I was concerned about having low Match-scores with a lot of girls I find attractive on another thread, but another poster said that if I see a girl who has a low match score but has "Casual Sex" selected, that I should send a message that indicates I'm looking for a casual relationship and that that might get her to look past the low Match-score. What's a good, tasteful message for a girl with a low Match-score but has "Casual Sex" selected on an otherwise normal-looking profile?
Author U1987 Posted December 29, 2011 Author Posted December 29, 2011 I sent my sample-email to one of the girls I was talking about; the ones with the really x-rated profiles. I immediately got a response, but I was a bit suspicious of the content; she didn't even attempt to answer any of my questions. She responded oh hey darn im actually logging off but is there a cell number hun to reach you at?? I just responded Don't wanna move to the phone just quite yet, but soon Any ideas as to how to proceed? Especially since she didn't answer any of my probing-questions?
bac Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 I don't have a webcam, but what do you think about my idea of asking for an emailed photo of them holding a piece of paper with something I asked them to write to confirm they're real? That might prove your diagnosis of paranoid personality disorder:D
bac Posted December 29, 2011 Posted December 29, 2011 I sent my sample-email to one of the girls I was talking about; the ones with the really x-rated profiles. I immediately got a response, but I was a bit suspicious of the content; she didn't even attempt to answer any of my questions. She responded I just responded Any ideas as to how to proceed? Especially since she didn't answer any of my probing-questions? You should give her your # to get to know what she wants from a man. To proceed the right way, you do everything a girl asks you to do. It is a must to succeed. If you are looking for casual sex, you are not expected to ask questions. You are expected to do only small talk.
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