NicoleM Posted December 27, 2011 Posted December 27, 2011 I haven't spoken to him in 3 weeks and today he contacted me out of the blue. Our break-up wasn't exactly mutual by any means. I spoke to him and now i feel stupid:o I promised myself I wasn't going to break the NC and when I saw he emailed me I immediately responded like a stupid fool. I still have feelings for him and I want to be friends but at the same time I cannot forget that he dumped me out of the blue and said it was over. Yes I was expecting it for a very long time but I wasn't expecting it so soon and so close to the holidays and I wasn't expecting him to rebound so quickly. I am such a mess right now. I feel so stupid right now for contacting him back and thinking he was asking for me back when clearly he hasn't because he rebounded so quickly. What should I do? I am such a wreck right now:sick:
BoredAgain Posted December 27, 2011 Posted December 27, 2011 Everybody makes mistakes, you just have to learn from them. So now you know that you should ignore your Ex when he initiates contact, at least until you're healed.
Author NicoleM Posted December 27, 2011 Author Posted December 27, 2011 Thanks:) I am trying to move on without him but it is so tough.
sugarmomma Posted December 27, 2011 Posted December 27, 2011 what did he say in the email? What did you say?
Author NicoleM Posted December 27, 2011 Author Posted December 27, 2011 He said I know it's been awhile since we have talked. I wanted to say a happy belated merry christmas and hope all is well with you. He said I have been thinking of you for these last couple of weeks and always hoped we could be friends. I said thank you for the belated christmas wish I hope you had a wonderful christmas. I want to be your friend in the near future but right now I am not quite ready because you already have a girlfriend and even though I am slowly getting over you I am just not ready to be your friend at this time. He said I understand that and hope one day we can hang out and be friends. I do want to be his friend but like I said I am just quite not ready just yet. I think I need to fully get over him and realize there is no more us as that famous saying goes I love you I am just not in love with you anymore is basically what he is saying.
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