Sentient6 Posted December 26, 2011 Posted December 26, 2011 (edited) So I after a long week of NC I could not help myself and I texted her On Christmas day..NC seems to have worked pretty well for me. The misery and sadness of the first few days is not long gone but I've had quite a nice time with friends and family since NC started. I wished Merry Christmas and asked her how's she doing and she answered pretty quickly"Merry Christmas to you too!! I'm doing good, I'm out of town(at her dad's house-Divorced Parents)..How are you doing?" I said-->"I'm doing good to! Been hanging a lot with family and friends these days..Work's going well..And I also have made a decent try to quit smoking!! How are you doing there at your dad's??(she hasn't seen him at all for about 1.5 years now.)" She then responded--> " Yeah..Those days are made for being with your family!! I'm happy that work's going well..Oh, and about smoking..that's good 4 u, but i honestly think it will be a mission impossible for you!!(I've been a keen smoker for almost 6 years now)..But the try is all that matters.It's very nice here, I came 3 days ago and I'm having a great time.I even went skiing today:p..It was so beautiful this morning up in the mountain..I loved it!! I answered--> "Why would it be a mission impossible?? I thought so too in the beginning But things are going really really well.Hmmm..Sounds you are having a great time up there..And I can recall that you didn't like it in the past. Will you stay there for New Year's too or will you be coming back??" And she replied-->" Ohh, it's the first time I 've seen so much snow..it's so lovely.And i don't regret it at all that I've come here..No I'm gonna be home for New Year's..I Had plans for returning tomorrow but I've decided to stay a lil bit longer:p!!" What do you guys think??Any advice??I'm feeling that things are going well, don't you? Edited December 26, 2011 by Sentient6
immitable Posted December 26, 2011 Posted December 26, 2011 Please continue NC, she hasn't asked one thing about you. what she replied, she did it out of courtesy.
SkyEmtRN Posted December 26, 2011 Posted December 26, 2011 Don't drop your guard down....please don't. If you drop your guard and she hurts your again...it stings twice as much. Be careful...
Million.to.1 Posted December 27, 2011 Posted December 27, 2011 I agree that she is just being courteous. If i txted my ex, he would also respond and be cheery and friendly. He would not ignore me. But this means nothing. I'm sure that she is feeling good that you txt her and that you are doing good and not angry or hating her, but that is all. what's really important is how you now feel, and how this communication will now play on your mind as it is. This is what we want to avoid by using N/C. It's for you. Not to punish her. I suggest you not contact her anymore now that some friendly communication has been shared, and leave it at that.
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