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Pizzaman81 Established Member

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Would be be:

 

A) Very worried

B) Slightly worried

C) Nothing to hide, no problem!

 

Explain with reason.

 

For me. (B)

 

If they were to see my history of posts and some of the things that happened, it could be a red flag to some.

 

Plan to action: Change your avatar, information and remove your photo albums... no problem *sighs*

somedude81 Established Member

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LOL, what if I met the person on LS, then what?

 

And no, I'm not dating anybody at all. Just a what if.

 

But yes, I would not want a woman to know who I am on LS if we met IRL. I'm way too negative here and it would freak most girls out.

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LOL, what if I met the person on LS, then what?

 

And no, I'm not dating anybody at all. Just a what if.

 

But yes, I would not want a woman to know who I am on LS if we met IRL. I'm way too negative here and it would freak most girls out.

 

Really? you are using LS as a dating service?

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C.

 

Good bad and ugly. It's out there. That's life.

Emilia Established Member

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C

 

Never say anything online that doesn't apply in real life

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Would be be:

 

A) Very worried

B) Slightly worried

C) Nothing to hide, no problem!

 

Explain with reason.

 

For me. (B)

 

If they were to see my history of posts and some of the things that happened, it could be a red flag to some.

 

Plan to action: Change your avatar, information and remove your photo albums... no problem *sighs*

 

lol I've never thought about this. Um, I would have to say C.

Anything I've said on here I would say to a date if he asked me. If he didn't like it he wouldn't be someone I should be spending time with anyway.

I would feel bad for the things I said about the guy I dated who wasn't assertive/aggressive enough because I'm sure the whole "I don't want to have to guide you" part would hurt his feelings lol but it's true and I pretty much told him the same thing except I used more tactful words.

 

I don't know anything about the history of your posts/which ones you think would raise red flags, but we all have dating horror stories. I wouldn't have my picture posted here anyway. If I happen to make friends I want to invite into my life I would just add them to my Facebook to share pics.

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I'd be mortified!

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Would be be:

 

A) Very worried

B) Slightly worried

C) Nothing to hide, no problem!

 

Explain with reason.

 

For me. (B)

 

If they were to see my history of posts and some of the things that happened, it could be a red flag to some.

 

Plan to action: Change your avatar, information and remove your photo albums... no problem *sighs*

 

B) Slightly worried.

 

I think some of my posts here show bitterness and negativity which I rarely show in person when I'm dating somebody. Honestly, when I'm dating somebody, the subject of 'dating' in a general social sense rarely comes up. And it doesn't change the fact that I treat a woman who I'm dating great.

 

On the other hand, reading my posts would show them I'm less shallow, more open minded, and less picky (in a physical/materialistic sense) than many other people. Assuming that would impress anybody...

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c.

 

even though the content ranges from bitter to reasonable to outright trolling and all points in between.

 

for every time i've told some random 18 year old dude on here to lie to his gf early and often, the girl in question will have posted about how AMAZINGLY HAPPY AND LUCKY she is on facebook when she's actually sitting home with a half empty bottle of liquor next to her dog crying about being single.

 

so meh, it's all good.

 

'some people gonna agree with it some people are not, but at the end of the day, who gives a sh*t'

 

-the wise and calm philosopher bart scott

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=btFQ0S3LFTQ

El Brujo Established Member

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C.

 

It's only a problem if you yodel your name all over the web for everyone else to see. I'm pretty stupid, but not THAT stupid.

alphamale Established Member

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If the person you are dating sees your LS posts

why would you let this happen in the first place moron?

Philosoraptor Established Member

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I'm not ashamed of my past as it has made me who I am. I wouldn't just say "hey want to read all this" but I'd not be afraid to show it either.

 

So C

Jynxx Established Member

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Wouldn't be worried, she would just realise I'm a cynical bastard somewhat earlier than I planned

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C. Everything I've said here, I've said to at least one other person. My anger and bitterness during the worst of it all is pretty normal. They get to see the good and the bad and I think they would realize that I'm okay now.

 

And if not, oh well, it's part of who I am!

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Without a doubt, A!

 

That goes for someone I’m dating or even just friends. People I know IRL would be shocked by my entire persona here. I have revealed things here that no one IRL would suspect. I’m the one who has everything together IRL; on here, I’m kind of a mess.

 

No one can EVER know I post here. I’ve never mentioned it to anyone.

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A middle ground between B and C. I'm not worried since I apply a certain degree of anonymity to my posts, but it does raise an alarm if a date or a potential interest happen across them. However, it can also prove to my advantage since what I write on here is informative enough for them to get a clue about my interests.

 

I'm thinking a Meg Ryan movie scenario- guy knows more than he's letting on and romantically pursues girl without her knowing. Sounds pretty romantic!

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Pizzaman81 Established Member

Pizzaman81

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A middle ground between B and C. I'm not worried since I apply a certain degree of anonymity to my posts, but it does raise an alarm if a date or a potential interest happen across them. However, it can also prove to my advantage since what I write on here is informative enough for them to get a clue about my interests.

 

I'm thinking a Meg Ryan movie scenario- guy knows more than he's letting on and romantically pursues girl without her knowing. Sounds pretty romantic!

 

What movie is that from?

 

So kind of like if you were to say you loved raspberry cheesecake on here and the next time you see the guy, he orders a raspberry cheesecake out of the blue

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What movie is that from?

 

So kind of like if you were to say you loved raspberry cheesecake on here and the next time you see the guy, he orders a raspberry cheesecake out of the blue

 

You've Got Mail- a classic in my opinion, and kind of makes me miss AOL and the frustrating 56 kbp internet connection. :laugh:

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After the break-up, i'm trying to get her back. Normally i play the tough confident guy act, but all my threads here would look really pathetic and desperate, so... A

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