Misar7 Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 Well, some may know my background some may not..I was with my ex for 9 yrs..in the end we went through a lot including me losing 4 pregnancies..he cheated on me and left me for a 22 yr old and knocked her up on the first night! At least they admitted that. Well it has been 4 months since then..back in October he got a hold of me, I ignored but he kept at it. So I finally replied to him, he wanted to meet me in person and so I did and he gave me this long sad apology and how bad he messed everything up blah blah blah. Well he then talked me to a few times after but then just stopped..whatever. Well, past few weeks he has been calling a lot and trying to flirt with me..and saying how he wants to have a child with me still..he had heard from family and it is true, that I was thinking of becoming a mother through sperm donor, because I am getting close to 35 and I don't have all day, and I want to be a mother more than anything. It is also no one business if I do or not. Him and I were planning on trying again when he left, I went to the Dr and got the clear and was ready, when literally 2 weeks later I found he got that young girl pregnant. Anyways, when he found out abput me going to use a sperm donor, he says no I will get you pregnant..wtf? Anyways, also my brother is married to his sister, they met through us, he is adopted so it is not blood relation but whatever. So all Holidays every year are done at my brothers house where his fam and my fam all get together for that past 9 yrs. So I was invited as always to my brothers house for Christmas Eve. But last minute his sister is like well you have to know they will both be there, I invited her too. Wow ok..yes I want to eat dinner with those two and open presents together, with a liar and a pregnant 22 yr old who he cheated on me with!! YES I can't wait to do Christmas with them!!! Are you serious???????? I told her hell no. My parents declined too. He was like a son to my dad and my dad said he can not see him in person or he may end up in jail. I also told my ex thanks a lot for ruining everything..he says I'm sorry. Yet his sister put all her Christmas pics up on FB today...and of course pictures of them two all lovey dovey and opening presents, and holding her stomach and everyone being best friends and all so happy. I just can't deal!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry..I had to vent been a bad bad 4 months and this Christmas just made it so much worse!!! It makes me sick that in my situation I can not even go to my own brothers house!!!!! They all just act like la la la.
DannyT27 Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 Misar7 I feel for ya, this is a horrible situation... It's like he wants to rub it in your face. Just maintain NC if you can I'm 38 days NC and it's helped me loads, my gf of 5 yrs left me for a guy 10 yrs older lol.. So know alittle what your going through, have u blocked him on fb ? 35 is still fairy young so if I was you don't worry but I knw it's different for women.. You've done nothing wrong so keep your head held high it's his loss not yours... Keep us updated and Merry Xmas :-p
Author Misar7 Posted December 25, 2011 Author Posted December 25, 2011 Yea I blocked him on there months ago..I am friends with his sister though. She is the one who put the pics up. She is married to my brother. We have been close friends for yrs..but with the way she is doing things..idk. It is easier to cut off an ex when the family is not connected. But with my brother ans his sister being married, and his sister and I being close friends and my brother and him being close friends. It is not so easy! I will see him and the baby and her and all of it!
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