ThaWholigan Posted December 26, 2011 Posted December 26, 2011 Look you're doing all wrong and you say you want to learn but you argue every single sugestion we give you. If you only ask out girls after weeks of knowing them and you've barely asked out any girls my point is you're really limiting yourself with some silly rule? Also you're so picky about who you ask out yet you had sex with some random chick you met at a party... Knowing some one for 3 weeks or a year or years as a friendly aquantance is hardly knowing them. You can't really know some one as a lover until you date them have that one on one romantic experience... not just friends talking about where to eat.... You see you can't know some one before you start getting to know them. I ask them out because they seem like some one I would like and until they prove me wrong I'll be willing to give it a shot. Stop looking for the sure thing! Take a risk He's like me. I had to ease myself into doing it. I still don't get anywhere but it's a start and I don't feel stupid anymore. I don't think it would be productive for him to jump right into doing it. Because if he continues to fail at first (which he probably will), it will become harder for him to carry on doing it. Somedude, don't put any emotional investments in these interactions. Much easier said than done, granted, but you have to find somewhere to channel all that emotional energy, otherwise you will never get over this.
jobaba Posted December 26, 2011 Posted December 26, 2011 Yeah, but I really have no idea why girls are rejecting me in mass. Never mind the fact that I'm 30 and only three women have expressed interest, plus all of them happened to be very overweight. BTW, wanting to edit my previous post but can't. Here it is It's because that's the way life is bro. Women are picky. I have a couple of guy friends in their mid 30s who are in your situation. They have never had a girlfriend either (far as I know). They expect it to fall into their lap like my better looking friends. Will NEVER happen. The game needs to be played differently by every guy. Pizzaman looks like a pimp/player. The same rules aren't going to apply to him as you. It doesn't matter that you guys are the same age. You need to get out of the mentality of "Why don't women like short guys?" and "Why can't women be less picky" ...and just hit the pavement and play the numbers. And by hitting the pavement I don't mean cold approach on the street, I mean going through every avenue available to you to find a woman.
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