Author MIK1000 Posted December 26, 2011 Author Posted December 26, 2011 Read what I wrote above your last post. I changed my mind... You aren't ready or confident enough to be successful. I am dude trust me, I know now to play it cool, I might just struggle at taking a chance.
wilsonx Posted December 26, 2011 Posted December 26, 2011 (edited) argh there are very few people i want to reach through my monitor and just slap around, you are one of them. take some risks in life, stop being a coward, sheesh i got a bj from girl I met on a "garden tour" (I wasnt in the tour for the gardens, my intention was clear with her) on alcatraz in a solitary confinement cell while my friend stood watched the closed door. Be adventurous, if you have a dirty thought going through your mind, I bet you the woman has 10 going through hers. You never know until you try WHATS THE WORST YOUR EX COULD HAVE SAID? NO? Didnt she already do that once? My ex has told me 3 times hell no we cant even be friends and the 4th time no, with the possibility of friendship Sometimes I feel like steve urkel and yelling, Im wearing you down baby Im wearing you down Edited December 26, 2011 by wilsonx
Author MIK1000 Posted December 26, 2011 Author Posted December 26, 2011 argh there are very few people i want to reach through my monitor and just slap around, you are one of them. take some risks in life, stop being a coward, sheesh i got a bj from girl I met on a "garden tour" (I wasnt in the tour for the gardens, my intention was clear with her) on alcatraz in a solitary confinement cell while my friend stood watched the closed door. Be adventurous, if you have a dirty thought going through your mind, I bet you the woman has 10 going through hers. You never know until you try WHATS THE WORST YOUR EX COULD HAVE SAID? NO? Didnt she already do that once? Lol, bet that was awesome. This isn't about sex though, this is about the girl whom I loved more than anything in this world but who was ruthless with my heart, and me leaving myself open to being hurt again, just because she showed up at the bar where all her friends go every Xmas eve and stared at me a few times, hung about near where I was working, the former of which could of been coincidental. I don't know if I'm willing to sacrifice what Ive worked for.
wilsonx Posted December 26, 2011 Posted December 26, 2011 ITS NOT COINCIDENTAL.... She knows where you work.... If you ever watched NCIS... Agent Gibbs has rules... Rule #39: There is no such thing as coincidence.
Author MIK1000 Posted December 26, 2011 Author Posted December 26, 2011 ITS NOT COINCIDENTAL.... She knows where you work.... If you ever watched NCIS... Agent Gibbs has rules... Rule #39: There is no such thing as coincidence. I dunno man. I'm just freaking out under tbe pressure that I might have the chance to get her back. But I don't even know if I want her back at this stage, I thought maybe sometime down the line, in a year or so,but by then I suppose the chance could have disapeered. I thought she was so lovely, then she treated me like the crap and suddenly after the initial pain of the loss has worn off, she isn't so lovely anymore. But then I think about how great the relationship was, right up until she went away for tbe summer and forgot that she loved me.
wilsonx Posted December 26, 2011 Posted December 26, 2011 Shut your mouth and listen to the point... ----------------------------------------- Do not type another word ----------------------------------------- POINT IS.... She was standing in front of you and she wanted you to BE A MAN and say HI. This is the point of our responses but you are so drowned in your self centeredness YOU DONT SEE IT. Stop trying to predict the future, make your own future. End of thread
Author MIK1000 Posted December 26, 2011 Author Posted December 26, 2011 Shut your mouth and listen to the point... ----------------------------------------- Do not type another word ----------------------------------------- POINT IS.... She was standing in front of you and she wanted you to BE A MAN and say HI. This is the point of our responses but you are so drowned in your self centeredness YOU DONT SEE IT. Stop trying to predict the future, make your End of thread So u think I should drop her a text and suggest we catch up over a coffee or something?
gibson Posted December 26, 2011 Posted December 26, 2011 So u think I should drop her a text and suggest we catch up over a coffee or something? NO!!!!! The fact that you have to ask and it has taken you this long to even think of doing it... You are not ready and will screw it up.
Author MIK1000 Posted December 26, 2011 Author Posted December 26, 2011 Okay guys, I spoke to my best buddy on the phone last night, he's been the main person I spoken to about the break up and although he doesn't have a great deal of relationship experience, he's a pretty rational person. He thinks I need to wait for her to make the next move. He said that if she's been acting like this, then he's more than certain that she will. This way I don't take a step back after healing myself through NC. So, don't text her just now, next time I see her, maybe make more conversation, be friendly. Then once she's sees I'm receptive to her she will maybe come out and contact me. Really, I should have spoke to her more the other night at the pub, but at least I gave her a smile and was civil and polite when serving her drinks. All in all, I don't want her back enough at the moment for me to put myself out there in a text while she has a boy friend.
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