manbehindthemask Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 Just wanted to thank everyone for thier thoughtful and supportive advice in my first thread - the thread was closed by mods apparantly because of bad paragraph formatting! First I've ever seen that, but rules are rules I guess and I did not follow. As I said, I'm travelling tomorrow and will not post for awhile...I know I have a long road ahead and will be sure to update everyone on "progress". Thanks again and have a very Merry Christmas.
Ms. Red Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 Good to know you got a reason for your thread lock. That doesn't always happen here. Thanks for the new thread. Please keep us updated. I would like to hear how you are doing. Merry Christmas to you too. And may all your desires come true!
findingnemo Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 Hi Man, I'm sorry about your thread getting nixed. I also would like to wish you good luck with the Ann situation. I hope that you find the happiness that you seek and that you are able to resolve things in a fair and kind manner. Merry Christmas!!!
18Years2Late Posted December 26, 2011 Posted December 26, 2011 Hi.. What is "bad paragraph formatting"???... Anywho...merry Christmas to you...enjoy your trip...we'll "talk" more later...keep us updated...I hope it all works out for you... 18
JoyDevine Posted December 27, 2011 Posted December 27, 2011 (edited) I had actually bookmarked your post to come back to as it developed. The lock, as well as all the posters accusing you of being a troll remind me why I stopped coming here.. I identified with your story - I can understand her point of view. I did something similar. In my case it was saying "no" to a marriage proposal years ago. Things can be complicated. I wish you the best of luck. I think you have a good chance to be together because - I've noticed from these situations - women will make a change to be with the man they love. And as far as your current wife - it is sad but what are you supposed to do?? Obviously, you were supposed to move on when you couldn't have Ann. You did that. Anyone you moved on with would always be second choice. And that's just a sad reality. Edited December 27, 2011 by JoyDevine
Author manbehindthemask Posted January 3, 2012 Author Posted January 3, 2012 I had actually bookmarked your post to come back to as it developed. The lock, as well as all the posters accusing you of being a troll remind me why I stopped coming here.. I identified with your story - I can understand her point of view. I did something similar. In my case it was saying "no" to a marriage proposal years ago. Things can be complicated. I wish you the best of luck. I think you have a good chance to be together because - I've noticed from these situations - women will make a change to be with the man they love. And as far as your current wife - it is sad but what are you supposed to do?? Obviously, you were supposed to move on when you couldn't have Ann. You did that. Anyone you moved on with would always be second choice. And that's just a sad reality. Thanks Joy, it is complicated. And you are right, "anyone" would have really been 2nd choice...I'm just amazed actually that I still thought of her so strongly for all of these years. I really did think over time the feelings would fade but they never did - now they are back with a vengeance. We have communicated only sparcely over the holidays but there are valid reasons for that (one of the items I mentioned in the orig thread that I said I wouldn't talk about). I will continue to update in the new year...
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