beachwrangler Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 So some of you may know my story. My ex of two years broke it off with me in Sept. and jumped into two relationships since the BU. She lied, cheated, played me it was the hardest thing I've been through in my life. I couldn't eat, sleep, the thoughts of her sleeping with the other guys were always on my mind, I lost 10 pounds the first two weeks after the break up. I finally after being stubborn like I always am took the advice most preach on here which is to go NC. Thank god I did. I love my life more than I ever did when I was with my ex. I have gotten my old friends back, new look, big job promotion, picked up new hobbies which I always wanted to do, and now I am back in the dating world. Actually went on a date tonight with a girl that went beyond perfect and I am so excited to see where things go. Life is so exciting to me and I look forward to everyday. I remember when my damn ex was the first and last thing I thought about everyday now I almost never do. I am truly healing all because of NO CONTACT it truly is the greatest thing. I like many always thought Im never gonna meet somebody blah blah blah get that **** out of your head. Get out and enjoy life and see how much is out there. So many opportunities at every corner and I can't wait to see what else is coming my way. Now for the ex did No Contact bring her back. In a word yes. She has been texting me non stop saying how much she misses me, wants me to be wrapped in the sheets with her, wants to win me back well too late. I love my life, met a great girl who I see great potential with and I am leaving my ex in the past bc afterall that is what she is. So the true success story isn't my ex wanting me back but is me getting my life back and loving it. It is hell at first but to all those in fresh breakups please listen to all the advice no contact will get you to where you want to be and that is loving your life and self. Just fight through the pain and one day it will hit you that you are over your ex and it is the greatest feeling in the world. Happy Holidays! Keep your heads up it truly does get better.
PoppyLove89 Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 Made up for you!!! Glad NC has finally had some positive feedback. I've been NC for a month and a half (we'll have been split 2 months come December 30th)...It's safe to say I already feel a hell of a lot better and it feels good to laugh again and spend time with those that truly care about you regardless; friends, family etc. mostly the people who you tend to take for granted and sideline during a relationship. Since we broke-up, I've realised my ex is immature and a complete emotionally stunted a-hole; all helps the moving on process (Y) Anyway, congratulations on making it through the mist and coming out a stronger and happier person on the other side! I hope to say the same
BoredAgain Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 Congrats! I'm glad that things worked out so well for you. You got back to a place where you were happy and confident being single, and that makes you attractive to both new women and your Ex. I hope everybody out there takes this as a lesson: if you really want to get your ex back, the best thing to do is move forward with your life... just don't be surprised if you find that you are no longer interested in your Ex when the opportunity for reconciliation arises.
perfectlyflawed459 Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 I am glad to hear you are doing well You deserve to be happy again. Best of luck to you and Merry Christmas!
mike588 Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 Glad to hear it. Yeah N.C. is the only way to heal and move on..I'm 4 1/2 months of strict N.C. and doing great! Of course there are some minor setbacks ocassionally but those are getting fewer and further between. I thought today would be a bad day for me....so far so good.
Marianis Posted December 26, 2011 Posted December 26, 2011 wow please help me out! haha im 7 months nc and still feeling the same for my ex... i finished university... i have a good job ... ill get promotted in january.. i go out with my friends... and i feel much better about myself... and had a friend with benefics for like 4 months .... :S but i still not happy and want my ex back ... why is that!?
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