headsashed Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 not long till xmas day and my ex txtme to say she slept with someone last night and i should get over her...wtf..nothing liike stab in the heart
Rimer Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 what a ahole... I would say leave the biatch alone and move on.. she's not worth you
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 Wow, that blows... I'm not familiar with your story but just the fact that she texted you to say that gives me the gut feeling that she is only out to hurt you. Probably to make herself feel better, I feel like my ex was doing this within the first few months of my breakup but it stopped eventually. Keep your head up and make an honest effort to make this holiday good for yourself.
leoc1973 Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 not long till xmas day and my ex txtme to say she slept with someone last night and i should get over her...wtf..nothing liike stab in the heart ya know maybe you are lucky. I mean if someone can be that ****ty it must be really easy to hate her. A lot of us have ex's still leading us on and playing games with us. Maybe its a present in disguise? Still sucks. sorry bro!
Author headsashed Posted December 24, 2011 Author Posted December 24, 2011 8 mins to xmas day and my ex gives me that crap,less tat 24 hours after abusing me via txt for trying to move on. This is the girl i knew,shes horrible,yes i hate her now but its xmas,couldnt she have waited? she knew i was alone all xmas,talk about evil.
smokey bear Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 She still loves you, she's hurting so in return she reaches out to hurt you. She's probably trying to ruin your xmas too because the guy she pumped ruined hers. Tell her you wont accept this, you will not talk to her until she can talk to you nicely then go strict nc. She's self destructing
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 Don't even tell her you are going strict NC. Just go hardcore NC, go to your cell carrier and have her number blocked if need be. If she seriously needs to contact you she will find a way.
stunned8165 Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 She still loves you, she's hurting so in return she reaches out to hurt you. She's probably trying to ruin your xmas too because the guy she pumped ruined hers. Tell her you wont accept this, you will not talk to her until she can talk to you nicely then go strict nc. She's self destructing I agree with this. Totally. But she sounds toxic too.
M2155 Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 Hey I don't know what's wrong with this girl but anyone who didn't have some sort of feelings (not saying they are positive, welcome or healthy feelings) wouldn't feel the need to throw this in the face. But she was right about one thing, you need to get over her.
Author headsashed Posted December 25, 2011 Author Posted December 25, 2011 shes evil,simple as that,i did best thing i could since all this crap was ended and for her to do this is bejond a joke,she ruined me over 3 months ago and a grew strong,then made a mistake,now she ruined me all over again,on xmas eve/day..i knew my luck was bad at the min but i didnt think it was that bad. She may have drawn blood tonight (literally) but only i will win this,shes horrible and i honestly hate her now
phone66 Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 I can't even imagine my ex doing that to me im devastated as is, sorry that happened to you. It seems like it would make it easier to completly dispize her.
SkyEmtRN Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 After hearing her say that... I would of replied "LOL beat ya to it" Slap her back in the face...not worth it dude, she's dirty now
PoppyLove89 Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 I think exes who still have feelings for you/are still hurting about the split will go out of their way to serve you with an emotional left-hook...if there were no feelings, why not be civil at least and allow each other to move on? I know that whenever my first bf looked like he was moving on, I'd do the childish thing and try to 'one-up' him (do one better, hurt him back) but that's because I was hurting inside and rather than swallow my pride and admit I still missed/loved him, I'd act out. Then once the love faded, I realised that I could actually be nice to him and wish him nothing but happiness. I'd never snub him if I saw him now because there's no feelings left - it doesn't hurt anymore. You need to move on from her because you deserve so much better!!!
Author headsashed Posted December 25, 2011 Author Posted December 25, 2011 sadly i did reply,i was very drunk,i know i shouldnt have but she really hurt me last night. She has become a sort of girl i hate,opening her legs to a random stranger. Atleast now i know i wont ever talk to her again,not even in 20 years time,she's cold and heartless after what she did,i mean,telling me on xmas eve when she knew it was going to be tough for me anyway.
Author headsashed Posted December 25, 2011 Author Posted December 25, 2011 Is this a wise thing to do,i actually never thought id have to go down this route but since i cant change my number etc until next month ive decided that if she ever tries to contact me or turns up at my house then im going to call the police and tell them she's harrassing me. Not that i want to do that but she is emotionally tearing me apart,chances are that she wont contact me but this girl has turned into some horrible,cold,hearltess cow so who knows what she's capable of. The last txt i got was about 3am and it was something about gonig out tonight,it wasnt meant for me or was she doing on purpose just to wind me up. I didnt think i could ever hate this girl but now i seriousley despise every bit of her. Now i just hope i can get over her with the help of hate and then ill be the 1 laughing.
marqueemoon4 Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 She's awful and clearly has major issues. Block her in every possible way, change your phone # if you have to. Try to forget about her immaturity and enjoy your day.
Author headsashed Posted December 25, 2011 Author Posted December 25, 2011 She's awful and clearly has major issues. Block her in every possible way, change your phone # if you have to. Try to forget about her immaturity and enjoy your day. yes she is awful,shes not the girl i fell inlove with thats for sure,my phone contract ends in about a week so im gonna hold on till then and then ill change my phone number and everything. Ive not been too bad today considering, The cheeky "swear word" even txt me a few hours ag to which i ignored,this is what it said " dunno what i was on about last night cos i was falling to sleep and i dont know what that txt was about".. cant belive she even txt me and that txt she said she doesnt know what she was on about made no sense to me,something about if he starts tomorrow when were out then lol ill get some mayo...thats all it said..she needs to stop trying to play with my head.
ken_25 Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 The only things you should ever need to say to her from now on are "hello?" followed by hanging up as soon as you know it's her, as she will probably somehow obtain your number. "Leave me be" Don't give this girl anything more, and never say these things twice when you're around her. don't get upset in front of her, don't say anything more than what I put in quotes and if need be get a restraining order. If you don't get a restraining order and she's banging your door down, just call the cops, don't even tell her you did. Silence can be deafening, and she will likely destruct. She is not worth getting worked up over, it's easy to right now, but you have to focus yourself elsewhere. You'll be fine.
Author headsashed Posted December 25, 2011 Author Posted December 25, 2011 im not getting worked up at all today which is funny considering her actions,its finally made me realise how low this girl really is. I will never talk to her again,even if she comes begging and crying,she is not worth my time or effort. Even though ive known this for the past few weeks and ive not even bitten to her,last night was a disgrace. I hope she suffers too,yes im angry at her and so i should be,you cant go around playing stupid mind games with someone who's emotionally broken. If she ever comes to my door then she isnt gettin in,either ill tell her to leave or ill just call the police.
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