CaliBabe Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 Well I got the Merry Christmas text from the ex. I am assuming others will get theirs as well. I guess it's part of the holidays. I'm not gonna feed too much into it. Although I definitely was NOT expecting this.
perfectlyflawed459 Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 Well that was nice of him! But like EgoJoe says, don't respond and continue NC. You have come this far, keep up the good work Best wishes and Merry Christmas!
smokey bear Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 I would respond its ignorant not to. Nc is a guide, its not set in stone
Cmac Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 Yeah, sending a simple Merry Christmas text isn't exactly going to set you back too much is it? It's childish behaviour not to respond.
mike588 Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 Well I got the Merry Christmas text from the ex. I am assuming others will get theirs as well. I guess it's part of the holidays. I'm not gonna feed too much into it. Although I definitely was NOT expecting this. Nothing yet and not expecting anything....I'll pass out if she does.
Rimer Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 Don't respond. What will it help other than maybe give you false hope and make you start thinking about crazy **** again and over analyze this ****
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 Don't respond. What will it help other than maybe give you false hope and make you start thinking about crazy **** again and over analyze this **** I agree, And honestly, what would you gain from sending a merry christmas card, text, letter.... to someone you are limiting or eliminating all contact with? screw coming off as ignorant or anything like that... this person doesn't matter at this point and you owe them nothing.
Melrapuo Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 Nothing yet and not expecting anything....I'll pass out if she does. Lol ditto... On a side note, there's comfort in knowing I'm not the only one suffering tonight because of a break up. Is...is that a good thing to say?
shayla Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 You have to do what is right for you! Who cares how you come off, and to who, the one that dumped you? So what? Getting a breadcrumb, and that is what this is, can set a person way back, it's all about the individual. everyone has not gotten to the place that they can have that kind of exchange, and that doesn't make one person less than anyone else.
stunned8165 Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 I suppose this is a mixed bag. Personally, If mine were to wish me Merry Christmas via text or what ever, I wouldn't respond. But that is due to my circumstances. And I doubt she will after me shutting her down in our last corispondence. On the bright side, I made it through our usual big family get together today. The kids opening gifts was a little rough, but I survived. And that's mostly what has been eating me up lately is not being with the kids for Christmas at my Dad's and tomorrow. But that will pass too.
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