So who has broke no contact during Christmas? I did.....

[69ways]

You are surprised you didn't get a response?

 

Let me ask you this...

 

When you ask her out on a date for the first time, did you ask her to be with you forever? Did you ask her out via text?

 

Any reconciliation that has a chance of working, you have to start over as a new relationship.

 

My advice...

 

Call her next time, ask her out for a cup of coffee, lunch or dinner. That way you can get to know each other all over again and build attraction that could lead to something more. Do not put labels on it, say it's all or nothing, etc. Just be normal like you would if you asked a new girl out.

 

You came across as needy and desperate, not at all attractive or desirable to a women.

 

Come her next time and seek wise counsel before you acting out some grand idea / scheme on how to get your Ex to want you back.

 

shook187 get's it... Make him your new best friend!

 

First I did not ask her out , she did...I said we could not meet as she was flying out the day before I would be there and she sounded desperate to see me.

Once I offered to change my ticked to go earlier she denied.

She asked me me to see again now and then the next day she ignored me....

 

Second, she answered to me and 2 minutes later she ignored me ,that does not sound logical to me....

[Philosoraptor]

I left mine a present for her and one for the dog for when she stopped by our shared house and visited the animals and left them stockings. She must have felt guilty because she wrapped up something (I assume it was with her stuff that I placed in the garage or in her car) that she found real quick at the house. It was a last minute guilty present. It gave me a giggle that she did that.

 

I had no feelings associated with her gift and just tossed it in my box of stuff from her in the attic then went about my day as usual.

 

This was a few days before Christmas. I heard nothing on the day but it didn't bother me nor did I think about it. Just enjoyed the time with my family.