SkyEmtRN Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 So I have a picture of me with 2 girls and another guy. I'm in between two girls and the guy is on the right. My hands are in my pockets and one one of the girl has there leg passing infront of me. My ex was spending time with a guy but she was told not to get involved with him becuase he is a cheater. I don't know if they still spending time but she is not one to go hooking up with guys left and right. Should I post this picture to show my ex that i'm having a good time with myself? I know my ex is still thinking of me but she mostly keeps thinking about the negative aspects of our relationship that she forgot the good times we had. What are the possible outcomes of doing this?
chados Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 So I have a picture of me with 2 girls and another guy. I'm in between two girls and the guy is on the right. My hands are in my pockets and one one of the girl has there leg passing infront of me. My ex was spending time with a guy but she was told not to get involved with him becuase he is a cheater. I don't know if they still spending time but she is not one to go hooking up with guys left and right. Should I post this picture to show my ex that i'm having a good time with myself? I know my ex is still thinking of me but she mostly keeps thinking about the negative aspects of our relationship that she forgot the good times we had. What are the possible outcomes of doing this? why shouldnt you? theres nothing wrong with a picture.. she left you. if she's having a problem with that, who cares?.
Author SkyEmtRN Posted December 24, 2011 Author Posted December 24, 2011 (edited) why shouldnt you? theres nothing wrong with a picture.. she left you. if she's having a problem with that, who cares?. Good point, I just don't want it to "burn the bridge"... She still wants to know wahts going on in my life. And I have not talked to her since friday but that I cut the convo short and she did sound disappointed. She wanted to know who I was with but I never responded basically said I had to get going. And havent said a word since. Edited December 24, 2011 by SkyEmtRN
chados Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 Good point, I just don't want it to "burn the bridge"... She still wants to know wahts going on in my life. And I have not talked to her since friday but that I cut the convo short and she did sound disappointed. She wanted to know who I was with but I never responded basically said I had to get going. And havent said a word since. trust me youre not going to burn the bridge by posting a picture, friday was yesterday.. dude stop contacting her... she actually told you that she made the right decision? well let her realize she didnt
Author SkyEmtRN Posted December 24, 2011 Author Posted December 24, 2011 trust me youre not going to burn the bridge by posting a picture, friday was yesterday.. dude stop contacting her... she actually told you that she made the right decision? well let her realize she didnt She reaches out to me and I just feel bad not answering her but I won't rush to answer her I'll just play it off cool but cut the conversation short, I don't initiate first move. I'm sure she gonna say somethign bout this, so hopefully it'll be an eye opener for her.
Cmac Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 I get the impression that everything you do has the ulterior motive of somehow convincing your ex to come back. You need to try to just get her out of your mind. Post the picture if you want, but don't just do it as yet another scheme to try and provoke her envy/get her back. It doesn't matter what her reaction is.
Author SkyEmtRN Posted December 24, 2011 Author Posted December 24, 2011 I get the impression that everything you do has the ulterior motive of somehow convincing your ex to come back. You need to try to just get her out of your mind. Post the picture if you want, but don't just do it as yet another scheme to try and provoke her envy/get her back. It doesn't matter what her reaction is. Yeap sure is lol.. I been trying hard to get her out of my mind...
mike588 Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 Yeap sure is lol.. I been trying hard to get her out of my mind... Contacting her...posting a picture...obsessing over her is not helping you get her out of your mind. Stop all contact...if she wants you back she will move mountians to get you.
CaliBabe Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 WHO FREAKIN CARES! Do what you want. If you feel like posting it, do so. She cannot still impact your life like this, you are broken up!
Sugarkane Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 You mean she still contacts you for a shoulder to cry on/ ego boost, by Tge sounds of it.
Author SkyEmtRN Posted December 25, 2011 Author Posted December 25, 2011 F*ck it, I posted it It'll show her I'm having fun and not moping around. What the hell she tries to rub the other guy in my face but when she finds out he's a cheater, she stops talking about him. Well now its her turn to go through that jealousy!!! I'll be damned if she ruins my christmas! Hope everyone lifts their head up for tomorrow!
PoppyLove89 Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 Ah the emotional mind games that go on after a break-up... I never truly understood the phrase "There's a thin line between love and hate" until I broke up with my latest ex. It's all about who can hit the hardest and that's a crying shame. My ex and I are the same if we see each other on a night out, 'ooh she can see me, must ignore her'...'he can see me, must make it look like I'm having the time of my life' etc - inside, I was devastated but I wasn't about to give the game away. I wonder what would actually happen if people were honest about their feelings to each other post-split?
Author SkyEmtRN Posted December 25, 2011 Author Posted December 25, 2011 I wonder what would actually happen if people were honest about their feelings to each other post-split? I do...everything would be sooooooo much EASIER!!!!
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