Gold Pile Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 I've been dating a 21 year old woman for a little while now. Usually it's dinner and my place every Friday. She typically leaves early Saturday evening. Based on advice I rcvd here, I didn't approach her as a big spender....didn't want to be considered a Sugar Daddy. Indeed our dates only cost me $35 bucks for food, and I eat more than half of it. In the bedroom it has been great for me (she's <half my age!) and good for her. Her body responds very well to my skilled moves. Friday, at my favorite dinner chain place, 3 of her GF's from college spotted her and approached our table. This was a high point for me, soon her youthful friends would be spreading the word about Gold Pile.....a very datable man for women of all ages. OK, I'm the first to admit that my ego gets the better of me sometimes. but i have been keeping this young lady very satified,....how could I not have an ego? Then she dropped the bombshell, she introduced me as her uncle. I was stunned and hurt, but I kept my cool. Just B4 our visitors left, I excused myself to the restroom. I was feeling pretty bad, even feeling kind of stupid. As I washed my hands....I loosed a big sob, then another, then the tears started flowing. LOL not really, I'm not that thin skinned. I knew this couldn't last long. I started thinking how I could offer that we shouldn't dine out if she was embarrassed about my age, we could just go to my place. That would save me $35. Back at the table she apologized. She turned down my cost saving plan and then she proceeded to break up with me. Thats when I started crying. LOL, not! It was a great fling (I'm even hoping for a booty call), It couldn't last. And if it had to end, then now is a good time, I don't have to get her an Xmas gift. Or I could buy her something expensive if you think that will get her back in my bed. ? As long as I'm not looking like a sugar daddy.
lululucy Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 WOW what a shallow btch. Although I guess it's better you found out now than later. If she was uncomfortable dating someone older, then why the hell was she dating someone older? Good lord. On to the next one, Gold. If you get her anything, make it a self-help book.
kaylan Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 Lol...Im sorry I couldnt help but think "she totally pwned him" Take it for what it was worth. You were a novelty to have fun with for a little while and she had her fill. Whatevs. Maybe a more mature gal next time? If i ever dated a women in her 30s or 40s I wouldnt pull that crap she did. Mad rude. If my cougar was super hot, Id be saying girlfriend to everyone who could hear me lol
phineas Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 Well Gold, of the flings I had with the 25 & younger women over the summer I gotta say I was happy when they went back out of town for college & haven't contacted me over break. It is what it is. I do miss the eagerness of a tiny young woman wanting to please in the bedroom but oh well, I can get the same thing from over weight women I pick up at the bar. 1
Negative Nancy Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 this what we've been trying to say in all these "women age like sour milk and older men can still get the young hot chicks" the whole time: younger women are hardly ever serious about dating older men, so no man needs to feel like he's a king when he "snatches up" a younger broad, because a meal ticket is always convenient to some women, as goldpile's threads have showed now. you also don't need to pretend like you're so above this whole scenario either, gold pile, cos if your ego got big just cos you "satisfied a young lady", i'm sure it was crushed down when she shot you down by introducing you as just an uncle. i'm not trying to be mean either cos i always thought your posts were kinda hilarious or entertaining, so i'm not feeling any malicious joy or anything in case it comes across like that. just saying that it was pretty obvious that it would end like this...though the "uncle" stuff is pretty tough stuff you both got out of this what you wanted to...since i assume you did not plan on settling down with her anyway, there's no reason for hard feelings on both sides. good luck with the next conquest!
FitChick Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 Then she dropped the bombshell, she introduced me as her uncle. :laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh: Now wait until she tells you she is pregnant.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 Well Gold, of the flings I had with the 25 & younger women over the summer I gotta say I was happy when they went back out of town for college & haven't contacted me over break. It is what it is. I do miss the eagerness of a tiny young woman wanting to please in the bedroom but oh well, I can get the same thing from over weight women I pick up at the bar. The sad thing is I think GoldPile makes these stories up and they are kind of funny. You on the other hand are completely serious and that's even more disturbing. Unless I am wrong and GoldPile is serious..but I don't believe him to be.
Author Gold Pile Posted December 23, 2011 Author Posted December 23, 2011 ....Unless I am wrong and GoldPile is serious..but I don't believe him to be. Well, I look for the humor in everything, but this hardly a wild tale. I dated a younger woman, she had issues with my age, it ended. I swear that if I posted that I found a weed in my driveway,.....someone would say it was a fantastic made-up story.
phineas Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 The sad thing is I think GoldPile makes these stories up and they are kind of funny. You on the other hand are completely serious and that's even more disturbing. Unless I am wrong and GoldPile is serious..but I don't believe him to be. Well, I've found that people believe what they want to believe.
kaylan Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 this what we've been trying to say in all these "women age like sour milk and older men can still get the young hot chicks" the whole time: younger women are hardly ever serious about dating older men, so no man needs to feel like he's a king when he "snatches up" a younger broad, because a meal ticket is always convenient to some women, as goldpile's threads have showed now. you also don't need to pretend like you're so above this whole scenario either, gold pile, cos if your ego got big just cos you "satisfied a young lady", i'm sure it was crushed down when she shot you down by introducing you as just an uncle. i'm not trying to be mean either cos i always thought your posts were kinda hilarious or entertaining, so i'm not feeling any malicious joy or anything in case it comes across like that. just saying that it was pretty obvious that it would end like this...though the "uncle" stuff is pretty tough stuff you both got out of this what you wanted to...since i assume you did not plan on settling down with her anyway, there's no reason for hard feelings on both sides. good luck with the next conquest! ^This. Cosign
ShannonMI Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 (edited) I've been dating a 21 year old woman for a little while now. Usually it's dinner and my place every Friday. She typically leaves early Saturday evening. Based on advice I rcvd here, I didn't approach her as a big spender....didn't want to be considered a Sugar Daddy. Indeed our dates only cost me $35 bucks for food, and I eat more than half of it. In the bedroom it has been great for me (she's <half my age!) and good for her. Her body responds very well to my skilled moves. Friday, at my favorite dinner chain place, 3 of her GF's from college spotted her and approached our table. This was a high point for me, soon her youthful friends would be spreading the word about Gold Pile.....a very datable man for women of all ages. OK, I'm the first to admit that my ego gets the better of me sometimes. but i have been keeping this young lady very satified,....how could I not have an ego? Then she dropped the bombshell, she introduced me as her uncle. I was stunned and hurt, but I kept my cool. Just B4 our visitors left, I excused myself to the restroom. I was feeling pretty bad, even feeling kind of stupid. As I washed my hands....I loosed a big sob, then another, then the tears started flowing. LOL not really, I'm not that thin skinned. I knew this couldn't last long. I started thinking how I could offer that we shouldn't dine out if she was embarrassed about my age, we could just go to my place. That would save me $35. Back at the table she apologized. She turned down my cost saving plan and then she proceeded to break up with me. Thats when I started crying. LOL, not! It was a great fling (I'm even hoping for a booty call), It couldn't last. And if it had to end, then now is a good time, I don't have to get her an Xmas gift. Or I could buy her something expensive if you think that will get her back in my bed. ? As long as I'm not looking like a sugar daddy. You want to buy her an expensive gift to f*ck her again? That's pretty sad. What's also sad is that she was so ashamed of you, she introduced you as her uncle. Be happy this girl broke up with you. You don't want to date someone who is ashamed to be with you or who you have to buy things for so they will sleep with you/love you. Not a good thing at all. By her ending things, it made things easier for you. Now go find someone who appreciates you and what you have to offer. Edited December 23, 2011 by ShannonMI
PlumPrincess Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 I've been complaining for a while about men and their unrealistic desires to have younger women as girlfriends while discarding women their own age. But there must be a God or a Santa! UNCLE!!!!
Author Gold Pile Posted December 23, 2011 Author Posted December 23, 2011 You want to buy her an expensive gift to f*ck her again? That's pretty sad. What's also sad is that she was so ashamed of you, she introduced you as her uncle. Be happy this girl broke up with you. You don't want to date someone who is ashamed to be with you or who you have to buy things for so they will sleep with you/love you. Not a good thing at all. By her ending things, it made things easier for you. Now go find someone who appreciates you and what you have to offer. Love was never in the cards. When I mention The Beatles and The Rolling Stones, she thinks I speak of garden pests and rock climbing hazards. While I have trouble remembering that Marilyn Manson isn't a woman. Actually she hardly remembers him anyway It was about getting laid, not loved. But it was friendly. I'd be willing to present her with reasonable gifts, if it attracted her back to me, but I don't want to come across like some Sugar Daddy. Her being ashamed or proud of me was less important than fact that she was sleeping with me.
Author Gold Pile Posted December 23, 2011 Author Posted December 23, 2011 I've been complaining for a while about men and their unrealistic desires to have younger women as girlfriends while discarding women their own age. But there must be a God or a Santa! UNCLE!!!! at least I got loads of action. A good fling. I find it easier when women do the dumping, when I do it I sometimes get a bitter, vengful, ballkicker on my hands. When they dump me we get to be friends.
kaylan Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 Pathetic what men will do for puzzy. Just buy a prostitute then. I have never ever spent money to get a woman into bed. Never will and dont have to. I always kinda laugh when guys have to do that, because they always forget that these women are giving it up for free to someone else while they waste their resources on a low class broad. And of course OP says that the lack of respect she showed him doesnt matter because he got laid. Im sorry, I love sex, but respect is more important to me. Again its a shame that men are slaves to their libido and tolerate bs.
Author Gold Pile Posted December 23, 2011 Author Posted December 23, 2011 ...I have never ever spent money to get a woman into bed. Never will..... when you ask a woman out on a date, where do you go, who pays?? Don't fool yourself
kaylan Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 I NEVER pay for dates. We go for coffee, a hangout in the park or town square, etc So dont fool yourself sugar daddy. I am with women who want me for me. And think Im sexy without paying for them. Seems like this girl was just looking for meals and payment which is easier to get from older guys since they have this wool over their eyes when it comes to younger women.
ShannonMI Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 Love was never in the cards. When I mention The Beatles and The Rolling Stones, she thinks I speak of garden pests and rock climbing hazards. While I have trouble remembering that Marilyn Manson isn't a woman. Actually she hardly remembers him anyway It was about getting laid, not loved. But it was friendly. I'd be willing to present her with reasonable gifts, if it attracted her back to me, but I don't want to come across like some Sugar Daddy. Her being ashamed or proud of me was less important than fact that she was sleeping with me. Find someone else to sleep with you. Not one you have to bribe with gifts. That's pathetic. There are women that don't need gifts to drop their panties. And that's all you want? You don't want to date anyone? Maybe you should go to an escort. If you are willing to buy expensive gifts to get a girl to bang you why don't you just pay a whore? It's essentially the same thing.
Author Gold Pile Posted December 23, 2011 Author Posted December 23, 2011 I NEVER pay for dates. We go for coffee, a hangout in the park or town square, etc So dont fool yourself sugar daddy. I am with women who want me for me. And think Im sexy without paying for them. Seems like this girl was just looking for meals and payment which is easier to get from older guys since they have this wool over their eyes when it comes to younger women.Hmmmm, you must be a youth or poor or both. I'm not knocking that....I started out youthful and poor. It's pretty hard for grown man to ask a grown woman to hang out at the park and buy me a coffee. Have you ever given a gift (valentines day, birthday, xmas) to a woman? Didn't you hope that box of candy would help you score? Gifts for the people you date regularily are the norm in polite society. To clarify...she only got meals with me, that is frankly the least an adult man would be expected to do on a date...sex or not. No payment was ever considered. I wouldn't offer it and she would slap my face if I did. It was here that I posted the idea that a gift might bring her back. You're lucky, I played the broke kid as long as I could,...free concerts, the free game at the park, just hanging around. Cheap dating. But eventually one has to show minimal acomplishment with the passing years. Picture a 35 year old, broke guy asking a 35 year old Doctor out on a date to feed the birds in the park. It may work once, but she will soon want to see that you've done something with your life. Anyway, while you are young & broke, enjoy it to the max. Stay in Mom's basement as long as possible, and save money.
Author Gold Pile Posted December 23, 2011 Author Posted December 23, 2011 Find someone else to sleep with you. Not one you have to bribe with gifts. That's pathetic. There are women that don't need gifts to drop their panties. And that's all you want? You don't want to date anyone? Maybe you should go to an escort. If you are willing to buy expensive gifts to get a girl to bang you why don't you just pay a whore? It's essentially the same thing. Have any guys ever gave you a gift? (Valentines day, xmas, birthday) How many of them scored? does that make you a whore? I don't think so.
ShannonMI Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 Have any guys ever gave you a gift? (Valentines day, xmas, birthday) How many of them scored? does that make you a whore? I don't think so. I've DATED these men though. It's not like they bought me gifts to solely bang me out. They had feelings for me and I had feelings for them. You are saying this is all about sex with this young woman. No that you love her or are actually dating her. Come on.
Oxy Moronovich Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 this what we've been trying to say in all these "women age like sour milk and older men can still get the young hot chicks" the whole time: younger women are hardly ever serious about dating older men, so no man needs to feel like he's a king when he "snatches up" a younger broad, because a meal ticket is always convenient to some women, as goldpile's threads have showed now. You obviously don't notice the fact that there are A LOT of younger women married to rich older guys.
kaylan Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 Hmmmm, you must be a youth or poor or both. I'm not knocking that....I started out youthful and poor. It's pretty hard for grown man to ask a grown woman to hang out at the park and buy me a coffee. Have you ever given a gift (valentines day, birthday, xmas) to a woman? Didn't you hope that box of candy would help you score? Gifts for the people you date regularily are the norm in polite society.I am 25 and who said anything about a woman paying for my coffee? Either we go dutch or we trade who pays. And Ive never needed to use gifts to help me score. Gifts were always given to girls I was seeing for a decent amount of time and already hooking up with. The gifts were to show my affection for them and had nothing to do with what we did together physically. I have too much pride to ever use gifts as currency in obtaining puzzy. Gifts are the norm to women you are exclusive to and who actually respect you. Not gold digging or young girls looking for a free ride like what happened to you. Funny thing is that I hook up with girls my age and never have to spend a dime to impress them, but you do. To clarify...she only got meals with me, that is frankly the least an adult man would be expected to do on a date...sex or not. No payment was ever considered. I wouldn't offer it and she would slap my face if I did. It was here that I posted the idea that a gift might bring her back. Ok she got meals. But SHES AN ADULT TOO. She can pay for herself especially if shes not my girlfriend. Im just saying that it costs many guys I know nothing to get with women. They reserve spending cash on girls that matter, not some lame broad whos just for sex and doesnt respect them. You're lucky, I played the broke kid as long as I could,...free concerts, the free game at the park, just hanging around. Cheap dating. But eventually one has to show minimal acomplishment with the passing years. Picture a 35 year old, broke guy asking a 35 year old Doctor out on a date to feed the birds in the park. It may work once, but she will soon want to see that you've done something with your life.Cheap dating works. You know what else works? Equal dating where a girl pulls her own weight and isnt out to use me because she was shamed to be around me. Ive paid for exes and then later they pay for me. Was never an issue. And a doctor is most likely always dating someone else in the medical field. The fact that hes broke at 35 is the turn off. It usually reflects poor money management and life direction. If a successful guy asked the woman out to feed the birds in the park, shed have no issue with it. I know plenty of ladies who like simple date ideas. Specifically because its a nice work around past the awkward "who pays" part at the end of the date since in our ever changing society, different men and women have different opinions about that until they are more invested in one another. Anyway, while you are young & broke, enjoy it to the max. Stay in Mom's basement as long as possible, and save money. Lmao, dude. I have friends older than me with the same philosophy who make a good piece of coin. Its about being valued as a person and not being taken for granted. Like you were. I may be young but I still have a good bit of savings if I need to date. But I dont spend my money on women Im not exclusive with nor invested in. I treat them just like I do my bros until things are further established. But I understand why youd try and defend your position so much. We cant all get women without having to lose some respect and pay
kaylan Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 (edited) You obviously don't notice the fact that there are A LOT of younger women married to rich older guys. Yeah. It has nothing to do with the guy though. They follow the cash. Young or old. You think they really sexually desire those guys? or the pool boy lolz However, in the past I have hooked up with girls with old school ways of thinking, and the size of my wallet has mattered not. I enjoy the fact that I have been able to date women based on how I make them feel, not based on what I can buy them. Thats not going to change either, because I am not drawn to the vapid women who expect a guys finances to be used on them. I usually next them pretty easily if I sense that entitlement. Its 2011, and women are adults as well. And despite older guys always saying how much younger men date older dudes...the average age gap in relationships is 3 to 4 years. Look it up. Most young women want men in their age range and find you older lads creepy. Just cus you snag one doesnt change that fact. Just like it doesnt change the fact that just because Id date an older woman, doesnt mean I, and men my age, dont prefer younger women. But none of this matters since I wont be one of those older guys still out in the dating world in the future. I kinda plan to be settle down with someone by thirty, and prolly married with kids by 35 Edited December 24, 2011 by kaylan
phineas Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 Love was never in the cards. When I mention The Beatles and The Rolling Stones, she thinks I speak of garden pests and rock climbing hazards. While I have trouble remembering that Marilyn Manson isn't a woman. Actually she hardly remembers him anyway It was about getting laid, not loved. But it was friendly. I'd be willing to present her with reasonable gifts, if it attracted her back to me, but I don't want to come across like some Sugar Daddy. Her being ashamed or proud of me was less important than fact that she was sleeping with me. Look at it this way man, you don't gotta clean the bathroom or do the dishes until you find another one. I never took 'em to dinner. I just had them over for movie night, threw something on the grill, gave them real wine, fired up the netflix on 50" plasma & their feeling like a queen. well, compared to the Swanson dinners, frozen pizza, boon's, & vhs on a 20" tube the guys their own age can manage. Instead of air conditioning I just encouraged them to....wear less. Plus my furniture is overstuffed & sooo comfortable. Posh compared to the threadbare garage sale couch & milk crate end tables they normally see in a 20 something apartment. yep. Can't wait for next summer.
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