Negative Nancy Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 (edited) I was blunt in the other thread. I don't date Blacks, Asians, Middle-Easterners or Hispanics. I just feel no attraction towards them. I can acknowledge that there can be good looking members among these groups, but they still don't do it for me. Kinda like some men only date latin or blond girls. I only date people of Western-European descent. Give me a dark haired or light haired (hair color is something I can budge on), blue-eyed, tattooed rocker type and I'm melting like butter in the sun. thank god my boyfriend fits the bill. how for instance could anyone resist a face like this: http://i.imgur.com/CYJYv.jpg *swoon* :love: Edited December 23, 2011 by Negative Nancy
Star Gazer Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 OK. Then you're all ruled out. Your loss and my gain... Why would it be my loss to not tell a guy to his face why I'm not interested? That doesn't make any sense.
Feelsgoodman Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 I was blunt in the other thread. I don't date Blacks, Asians, Middle-Easterners or Hispanics. I just feel no attraction towards them. I can acknowledge that there can be good looking members among these groups, but they still don't do it for me. Kinda like some men only date latin or blond girls. I only date people of Western-European descent. My preferences for girls are the same...except I would not limit myself to the western part of europe (in fact, eastern european women tend to be more attractive, both physically and personality-wise, than their western counterparts).
Cypress25 Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 I'm going to ask every single woman I meet from now on if they are attracted to Asian guys. Here's the problem with that question: You're assuming that women think all Asian guys look the same. That assumption is extremely offensive, which is why women will be turned off by it. I'm white (and short, for the record) and I've met some Asian guys who I thought were cute, and other Asian guys who I thought were unattractive. They don't all look the same! Their ethnicity had nothing to do with my level of attraction to them. There are attractive Asians and there are unattractive Asians, just like there are attractive and unattractive people of every ethnicity. So even if a woman is attracted to you and interested in dating you, that question would instantly turn her off. You'll blow your chances with every woman you meet if you ask her that. It also shows that you're insecure and you expect your ethnicity to be a problem, almost as if you see your ethnicity as a flaw. Major turnoff.
FitChick Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 The polite thing to say is "He/she is not my type." If they ask you what your type is, then tell them. That way it is more positive, i.e. "I like" than negative "I don't like/don't find attractive..."
grkBoy Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 Don't be ashamed of your preferences. I agree. Society has made us believe to have preferences and standards means we're "bad" or shallow. I say if one likes white blondes with blue eyes or buff black men or short Asians...go with it. Just always set standards you can REALISTICALLY attain.
Disillusioned Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 I think hitting on women "cold" is like inviting people you don't even know to a party you're having. Gotta know what you're looking for!
Els Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 I agree. Society has made us believe to have preferences and standards means we're "bad" or shallow. I say if one likes white blondes with blue eyes or buff black men or short Asians...go with it. Just always set standards you can REALISTICALLY attain. Yep, precisely. The most annoying people, in my book, are the ones constantly whining about how 'hot girls are shallow because none have ever paid attention to them'. Talk about hypocritical.
kvinna Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 I was blunt in the other thread. I don't date Blacks, Asians, Middle-Easterners or Hispanics. I just feel no attraction towards them. I can acknowledge that there can be good looking members among these groups, but they still don't do it for me. Kinda like some men only date latin or blond girls. I only date people of Western-European descent. Give me a dark haired or light haired (hair color is something I can budge on), blue-eyed, tattooed rocker type and I'm melting like butter in the sun. thank god my boyfriend fits the bill. how for instance could anyone resist a face like this: http://i.imgur.com/CYJYv.jpg *swoon* :love: I could definitely resist. No offense haha
Els Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 LOL me too. The guy looks like we'd end up living in a trailer park, to be perfectly honest. Oops, bad judgmental me.
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