Glove_slap Posted December 22, 2011 Posted December 22, 2011 Let me give you a brief explanation...This has been on my mind for a very long time and I've always wondered if this is true or not and right now I've just accepted that it's just a fact of life. You see I dated this girl back in high school, we were together for three years, she was from the suburbs and I was from a ghetto and I wasn't the drug dealer type. I was the "poor immigrant family, struggling with trying to live a legit life while maintaining good grades and avoiding peer pressure" kind of guy. Any ways, we got together and after a series of unfortunate events she broke up with me about a year and a half ago after high school ended. It broke my heart because she's all I ever cared for in the world (excluding my family) and I didn't know how I could maintain after she broke it off. She started dating another guy, an older guy who is a drug dealer that lives in the suburbs (she's always had bad influences around her that tried to get her into drugs and partying but she's always avoided all that - her best friend tried to always break us up and get her to date big time drug dealers and this time she succeeded in hooking up the two together). Any ways, a bunch of things happened, I went into no contact with her but I still checked her twitter every once in awhile and I've read about how great her life is, how he buys her everything, cooks for her, takes her out all the time, has good connections to parties and clubs, has a car, lives in a condo AND a mansion or something. All I could do was love her but I managed to mess that up too.... It feels like she'll never come back to me because she simply has had a taste of the good life and no matter what happens she'll never go backwards because now she feels as if she deserves the best of the best....I feel so pathetic as a man right now it's unbelievable but this feeling isn't as strong as it was before. Funny story too, he got arrested earlier this year and that's when she first found out, her best friend also got arrested along with my ex's new bf but they're all still friends and she's still dating him..It's been a year and a half and she still hasn't hit rock bottom but right now it seems like she'll never realize what she's done to me or even come around to apologize.... I don't know...life sucks sometimes..
blotter Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 Whoa I would be careful about generalizing about all women from your experiences with high school dating. I think women have no harder of a time going "backwards" in lifestyle then men do, unless they are immature, materialistic, and just generally a shallow person. FYI checking her twitter account IS breaking NO contact. Instead of spying in on her and seeing what she is doing and how she is handling her life, you should turn inward and see why you would want to be with a girl who would want to be with a loser drug dealer.
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