Ayla Posted December 22, 2011 Posted December 22, 2011 So I'm feeling a little sensitive right now. I am so confused right now. The guy and I are really close, he is currently at my house almost everyday painting my house, buying me things for the house, fixing it up and such, and has been consistently for the last 5 weeks. He flirts with me, there is some sexting, lots of verbal conversations with sexual connotations and innuendos. Last week, he prompted a conversation that suggested we get together physically again. Since then, I have suggested he stay over numerous times. He has said he wants me almost daily. We have been Christmas shopping together, dinners, I'm even taking his daughter shopping for his birthday present from her. BUT despite asking him to stay numerous times-he has not done so. Tonight after we went shopping he came over. I asked him to stay the night, he didn't reply and then 10 min later said he was heading home. We have been joking around saying that the other is all talk. As he was walking out, I said that he is all talk. To which he called out that I was. Some of his actions say he is into me, but then why won't he stay despite being the one to initiate it?!?
Untouchable_Fire Posted December 22, 2011 Posted December 22, 2011 So I'm feeling a little sensitive right now I am so confused right now. The guy and I are really close, he is currently at my house almost everyday painting my house, buying me things for the house, fixing it up and such, and has been consistently for the last 5 weeks. He flirts with me, there is some sexting, lots of verbal conversations with sexual connotations and innuendos. Last week, he prompted a conversation that suggested we get together physically again. Since then, I have suggested he stay over numerous times. He has said he wants me almost daily. We have been Christmas shopping together, dinners, I'm even taking his daughter shopping for his birthday present from her. BUT despite asking him to stay numerous times-he has not done so. Tonight after we went shopping he came over. I asked him to stay the night, he didn't reply and then 10 min later said he was heading home. We have been joking around saying that the other is all talk. As he was walking out, I said that he is all talk. To which he called out that I was. Some of his actions say he is into me, but then why won't he stay despite being the one to initiate it?!? Why are you in such a rush? Some guys really enjoy the chase. He clearly likes you, so stop being silly.
Emilia Posted December 22, 2011 Posted December 22, 2011 Why are you in such a rush? Some guys really enjoy the chase. He clearly likes you, so stop being silly. She has been posting the same thing for months.... Look up the history. Probably shouldn't be encouraged.
Author Ayla Posted December 22, 2011 Author Posted December 22, 2011 Yes, it has been going on for months, mixed signals, hence my confusion. It is not so cut and dry. Most people in both our lives think we are a couple, even our best friends treat us like we are. Everyone is is as confused as i am. So I come here. Emilia, I would prefer you not to comment on my posts please.
FitChick Posted December 22, 2011 Posted December 22, 2011 Maybe he is impotent. Maybe he is married. Maybe he is transgender. Why not ask him? The look on his face would be priceless.
Author Ayla Posted December 22, 2011 Author Posted December 22, 2011 Fitchick! Thank you for making me laugh!!! Transgender...too funny. He isn't married - nearly all his spare time is spent with me or his daughter. We have fooled around before...and nearly all with happy endings. Too funny!
loversquarrel Posted December 22, 2011 Posted December 22, 2011 He sounds like he likes you, just doesn't want to commit. I get like that too. It doesn't mean anything bad, but just be prepared that it might not go further than what it is now. If it does, it could take a while to get there, especially if he's been through a divorce.
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