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Hi all, I posted here much earlier in the year when my life fell apart via a cheating partner. I still come here from time to time and read the stories some similiar to mine, others different. Still I do gain strength from hearing that I wasnt alone. I left my partner for dust and it's strange being single but I know I did the right thing. How strange is going on a date in your 40's? So whether you work things out or decide to go your own way I wish everyone one on this site a very merry Christmas and much much better 2012 (yes it will be better, everyone tells me so) Thanks all for the help.

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Good luck to ypou Lance. There is life after the A. It is a tough road, but there is light at the end of the channel.

 

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU, TOO.

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I am proof there is life after the affair. Ya, it stung big time, I was a mess for nearly a year. But now that I am dating - (women in their 40s) - life has really blossomed and I am enjoying it very much.

 

It doesn't seem like it but there is light at the end of the tunnel folks.. there really is. And you may find - (like I did) - that the cheater actually did you a favor, and took out the garbage - (themselves!) - which totally freed you from all their bad energy.

 

ETA.. I looked at it this way... she may have dumped me, but she dumped me into a HUGE pool of eligible, quality women. ;)

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I am proof there is life after the affair. Ya, it stung big time, I was a mess for nearly a year. But now that I am dating - (women in their 40s) - life has really blossomed and I am enjoying it very much.

 

It doesn't seem like it but there is light at the end of the tunnel folks.. there really is. And you may find - (like I did) - that the cheater actually did you a favor, and took out the garbage - (themselves!) - which totally freed you from all their bad energy.

 

ETA.. I looked at it this way... she may have dumped me, but she dumped me into a HUGE pool of eligible, quality women. ;)

 

 

I like that quote.

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Hey Lance---hang in there---life will be fine- you will be fine, and the sun will come up manana morning---be good, and happy 2012

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