Mattock5656 Posted December 22, 2011 Posted December 22, 2011 Hey guys, I met a nice girl about a week ago and we had a great date from great conversation flow to smiling at each other constantly. (it lasted 3 hours) At the end of the date, I asked her is she wanted to go out again and she said definitely but she wont get back till the 26th because she is graduating out of town and visiting her family for the holidays but she would be more and happy to go out again. We hugged and she departed and I texted her later and said, that I had a fun time with her and she said, "I did too". Well that was about a week ago and I've been texting with her every other day and she responds to most. Although, she doesn't really intitate much texting so I just told her, that "When you get back into town, give me a call if you want!" and she said, "I will!" Well, that was three days ago and I haven't heard from her since. I texted her today, asking how is everything down there etc? and no response..." Do you think I am over thinking this entire situation and I should just chill the **** out? For some odd reason, I think she is not that interested in me as much from the lack of communication but then I start thinking, "well she is out of town with friends/family and she could be very well busy." Also, how she said she will call me when she gets back into town. What you guys think? I haven't texted her much and didn't want to come on to her so quickly. Should I move on or just wait? Thanks guys!
TheFinalWord Posted December 22, 2011 Posted December 22, 2011 Hey guys, I met a nice girl about a week ago and we had a great date from great conversation flow to smiling at each other constantly. (it lasted 3 hours) At the end of the date, I asked her is she wanted to go out again and she said definitely but she wont get back till the 26th because she is graduating out of town and visiting her family for the holidays but she would be more and happy to go out again. We hugged and she departed and I texted her later and said, that I had a fun time with her and she said, "I did too". Well that was about a week ago and I've been texting with her every other day and she responds to most. Although, she doesn't really intitate much texting so I just told her, that "When you get back into town, give me a call if you want!" and she said, "I will!" Well, that was three days ago and I haven't heard from her since. I texted her today, asking how is everything down there etc? and no response..." Do you think I am over thinking this entire situation and I should just chill the **** out? For some odd reason, I think she is not that interested in me as much from the lack of communication but then I start thinking, "well she is out of town with friends/family and she could be very well busy." Also, how she said she will call me when she gets back into town. What you guys think? I haven't texted her much and didn't want to come on to her so quickly. Should I move on or just wait? Thanks guys! Yeah, relax. It isn't even the 26 yet. Plus you've only had one date, I would relax with all of the texting. She's going to think you're high maintenance. Also, you should not have put the call on her. That's usually the guys role the first few times. My recommendation is to stop texting for now and call her when she gets back and see if she wants to do something for New Years.
YaOldBuckaroo Posted December 22, 2011 Posted December 22, 2011 Hey guys, I met a nice girl about a week ago and we had a great date from great conversation flow to smiling at each other constantly. (it lasted 3 hours) At the end of the date, I asked her is she wanted to go out again and she said definitely but she wont get back till the 26th because she is graduating out of town and visiting her family for the holidays but she would be more and happy to go out again. We hugged and she departed and I texted her later and said, that I had a fun time with her and she said, "I did too". Well that was about a week ago and I've been texting with her every other day and she responds to most. Although, she doesn't really intitate much texting so I just told her, that "When you get back into town, give me a call if you want!" and she said, "I will!" Well, that was three days ago and I haven't heard from her since. I texted her today, asking how is everything down there etc? and no response..." Do you think I am over thinking this entire situation and I should just chill the **** out? For some odd reason, I think she is not that interested in me as much from the lack of communication but then I start thinking, "well she is out of town with friends/family and she could be very well busy." Also, how she said she will call me when she gets back into town. What you guys think? I haven't texted her much and didn't want to come on to her so quickly. Should I move on or just wait? Thanks guys! Hey buddy I think you should take it easy with initiating communication with her everyday. I'd give her some space, and wait for her to call you when she gets back to town. She's probably busy preparing for the holidays anyhow. If all went well during the first date, have faith that you made a strong connection and that she will call you when she gets back. Here's a helpful article that'll help you out with the task of winning her over when she does (not saying that you need it, but some tips here would definitely come in handy): http://www.scribd.com/doc/4654457/Attract-Women-With-4-Routines-From-Black-Belt-Seduction Sincerely, max
bac Posted December 22, 2011 Posted December 22, 2011 Hey guys, I met a nice girl about a week ago and we had a great date from great conversation flow to smiling at each other constantly. (it lasted 3 hours) At the end of the date, I asked her is she wanted to go out again and she said definitely but she wont get back till the 26th because she is graduating out of town and visiting her family for the holidays but she would be more and happy to go out again. We hugged and she departed and I texted her later and said, that I had a fun time with her and she said, "I did too". Well that was about a week ago and I've been texting with her every other day and she responds to most. Although, she doesn't really intitate much texting so I just told her, that "When you get back into town, give me a call if you want!" and she said, "I will!" Well, that was three days ago and I haven't heard from her since. I texted her today, asking how is everything down there etc? and no response..." Do you think I am over thinking this entire situation and I should just chill the **** out? For some odd reason, I think she is not that interested in me as much from the lack of communication but then I start thinking, "well she is out of town with friends/family and she could be very well busy." Also, how she said she will call me when she gets back into town. What you guys think? I haven't texted her much and didn't want to come on to her so quickly. Should I move on or just wait? Thanks guys! It might be a good idea to move on because you are kind of different. She looks like a normal balanced person who takes it slow without needless drama. You do not give a f...k about what she told you about the 26th and you just want to create some drama and rejection. I guess if you try really hard she might figure out that you are wrong by the 26th and then she might reject you.
Author Mattock5656 Posted December 22, 2011 Author Posted December 22, 2011 It might be a good idea to move on because you are kind of different. She looks like a normal balanced person who takes it slow without needless drama. You do not give a f...k about what she told you about the 26th and you just want to create some drama and rejection. I guess if you try really hard she might figure out that you are wrong by the 26th and then she might reject you. Like I said, I did not text her that much....so what defines taking it "slow"? I mean I understand she is with her family and such and probably having boat loads of fun but I would expect at least some kind of respond?!!! I mean someone that is interested would they really be silence for pretty much the whole trip? I'm willing to take the blame on the fact that I should not be fixated on one female but I guess time will only tell for my answer.
jobaba Posted December 22, 2011 Posted December 22, 2011 Like I said, I did not text her that much....so what defines taking it "slow"? I mean I understand she is with her family and such and probably having boat loads of fun but I would expect at least some kind of respond?!!! I mean someone that is interested would they really be silence for pretty much the whole trip? I'm willing to take the blame on the fact that I should not be fixated on one female but I guess time will only tell for my answer. Yes. Take this opportunity to date or at least try to date other girls. Never invest too highly in a woman you've met once... ...or any woman for that matter!
Author Mattock5656 Posted December 22, 2011 Author Posted December 22, 2011 Yes. Take this opportunity to date or at least try to date other girls. Never invest too highly in a woman you've met once... ...or any woman for that matter! Ya totally, I usually dont do that but for some odd reason I did it on this particular girl. I just felt we had so much in common and the date went well but that shouldn't stop me from dating other girls. =) Thanks for the replys guys!
lululucy Posted December 22, 2011 Posted December 22, 2011 Definitely reeeeeelax! Text her on Christmas "Merry Christmas" if you want but let her be at home with her family and graduating. The fact that she replies at all says she likes you and texting too much after one date is weird. If she doesn't call on the 26th, call her and ask her out. Keep it simple.
bac Posted December 22, 2011 Posted December 22, 2011 Like I said, I did not text her that much....so what defines taking it "slow"? I mean I understand she is with her family and such and probably having boat loads of fun but I would expect at least some kind of respond?!!! I mean someone that is interested would they really be silence for pretty much the whole trip? I'm willing to take the blame on the fact that I should not be fixated on one female but I guess time will only tell for my answer. Taking it slow means to have adequate impulse control. She said that she would be available after the26th. What is wrong with waiting for several days? You had the only one date therefore you do not know her much. Therefore, you should not have any expectations about her behavior. Yes, she can be silent for the whole trip because you had the only one date. It is OK to be fixated on a female (I mean to be exclusive for several days:p) but it is wrong to have expectations that she is going to treat you as her BF after the first date. If she was a bipolar, she would treat you as a BF and also told you that she was in love with you after the first date.
Author Mattock5656 Posted December 22, 2011 Author Posted December 22, 2011 Taking it slow means to have adequate impulse control. She said that she would be available after the26th. What is wrong with waiting for several days? You had the only one date therefore you do not know her much. Therefore, you should not have any expectations about her behavior. Yes, she can be silent for the whole trip because you had the only one date. It is OK to be fixated on a female (I mean to be exclusive for several days:p) but it is wrong to have expectations that she is going to treat you as her BF after the first date. If she was a bipolar, she would treat you as a BF and also told you that she was in love with you after the first date. Totally, I see what your saying..that pretty much cleared everything. You are totally right...I just hope it isnt too late and I didn't portray the wrong image. I'm going to take your guys advice and not text her at all until she calls etc. Damn I feel like a idiot sometimes lol Thanks everyone for the replys!
Author Mattock5656 Posted December 22, 2011 Author Posted December 22, 2011 Definitely reeeeeelax! Text her on Christmas "Merry Christmas" if you want but let her be at home with her family and graduating. The fact that she replies at all says she likes you and texting too much after one date is weird. If she doesn't call on the 26th, call her and ask her out. Keep it simple. Good idea, I will keep this in perspective...Through her busy schedule she still managed to reply for the most part and I should take that as a good sign. Thanks again!
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