PlumPrincess Posted December 21, 2011 Posted December 21, 2011 Is it ok to ask for feedback when someone you went on a date with tells you they think you both are not a good match? Or is that a weird thing to do? For example, feeback on: - Do I talk too much? - Is there anything I can improve about my profile? - Do I come off as arrogant? - etc. I'm currently thinking when a guy is not interested in dating you, he is not interested in having any kind of communication with you.
Twos Company Posted December 21, 2011 Posted December 21, 2011 Not a good idea at all, whatever they say, if they even bother saying anything, will not be the truth, and also it is kind of making yourself look like a saddo.
Soxfaninfl Posted December 21, 2011 Posted December 21, 2011 My ex-GF just did that via text. It was weird at first, but I told her there was nothing wrong with her. She was dating a guy for a couple of months, and it was going well. She asked me if it was her. She said she felt I would give her my honest opinion, and I did. I broke up with her because I was still in love with my wife at the time. My wife and I had been separated for 10 months. My ex-GF and I have been broken up since March. If she wanted kids I would try again with her. I did like being with her, but I want a family.
Soxfaninfl Posted December 21, 2011 Posted December 21, 2011 (edited) Her relationship was not going well. To be honest, it doesnt hurt to try. If they refuse to give you feedback then oh well. Edited December 21, 2011 by Soxfaninfl
Author PlumPrincess Posted December 21, 2011 Author Posted December 21, 2011 Ok, I took my request back. I think he is not comfortable communicating with me and there's no need to push for it. But really, sometimes I wish I could get feedback... I think I do a lot of things that keep people away from me, but I'm not very good at recognizing these things about me.
ptp Posted December 21, 2011 Posted December 21, 2011 Generally it isn't a good idea to ask for feedback. Is this the guy at your work that you were trying to breakup? Maybe he doesn't feel comfortable talking to you because he is still in a relationship?
Author PlumPrincess Posted December 21, 2011 Author Posted December 21, 2011 Generally it isn't a good idea to ask for feedback. Is this the guy at your work that you were trying to breakup? Maybe he doesn't feel comfortable talking to you because he is still in a relationship? Hey, I wasn't really doing anything. Worse things happen when other women flirt with guys they have zero interest in. And I've come to terms with the fact that he is not interested in me. No, that's not the guy. I don't go on dates with guys who are in a relationship. Sometimes I think you guys need to acquire some basic reading skills before you post. Or switch on your brain before you let your imagination run lose.
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