2sunny Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 There is no grey area in the fact that his actions show everything he won't say. The fact that he stays is the black or white... It's everything you need to know. There's nothing grey about that.
Confused4Now Posted December 24, 2011 Posted December 24, 2011 There is no grey area in the fact that his actions show everything he won't say. The fact that he stays is the black or white... It's everything you need to know. There's nothing grey about that. It's always been said that people are not where they don't want to be...if they want to be out they will get out. I did......when I had enough I left.
beenburned Posted December 26, 2011 Posted December 26, 2011 Any EMA is a subtraction of time and energy from the wife and kids. No matter what the MM may tell the OW, he is NOT being a good father or a good husband.
Spark1111 Posted December 26, 2011 Posted December 26, 2011 Any EMA is a subtraction of time and energy from the wife and kids. No matter what the MM may tell the OW, he is NOT being a good father or a good husband. No he is not. He is remote, distant and obssessing about the AP. If you were in my home during his affair, it would have broken your hearts to see how hard my kids tried to get dad to smile; how confused they were by his erratic behavior; how he "forgot" to be home on time for their birthdays and special events; how he left as soon as he could under the guise of a work-related emergency. In fact, my friends and children suspected something was amiss waaay before I did. How stupid of me. How sad for them.
Author missjones Posted December 26, 2011 Author Posted December 26, 2011 Any EMA is a subtraction of time and energy from the wife and kids. No matter what the MM may tell the OW, he is NOT being a good father or a good husband. this is very true, and I didn't even realise it until reading the posts on here (the dad part anyway). Even though we only met for an hour or so max in person (which was occasionally) we were still in regular contact via text..if I text him he would reply almost straight away, which looking back now makes me wonder how engaged as a father he really was if he had time to sit and text me all the time?
beenburned Posted December 26, 2011 Posted December 26, 2011 Spark, Me and the kids experienced the same thing during the years H was cheating. It was like he was a completely different person. We walked around on eggshells when he was at home, as any little thing set him off. Looking back with hindsight, I should have kicked him out simply because he was treating us like crap.(even without the adultery)
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