BrokenFool Posted December 21, 2011 Posted December 21, 2011 Why am I not over her ? Why do her thoughts her memories still play on my mind Why does my heart still miss her and want her ive had nothing from her - apart from private number calls, weird texts, fake facebook requests - i cant say 100% that was her she hasnt reached out to me once its been 12 months so many questions plague my heart - why hasnt she remembered all the nice things i did for her, seen that some of the mistakes were hers why instead of hiding behind a private number call why cant she just ring and say can we talk why does she try make it obvious to me that she is checking my facebook profile by giving me private number calls everytime i change my profile picture
Milsch Posted December 21, 2011 Posted December 21, 2011 How long were you together? Do you have 'up' and 'down' periods? And are you doing everything you can to move on (not looking at FB, not talking about it with mutual friends, etc)? I have no real advice, hence the questions. I, too, am utterly heartbroken after pretty much single-handedly throwing away a relationship with an utterly wonderful and beautiful woman who is now with another guy. So... all I can really say is hang in there - it HAS to get better. I am praying it won't take me years, but I fear it will. All the best...
motive2002 Posted December 22, 2011 Posted December 22, 2011 private number calls, weird texts, fake facebook requests - i cant say 100% that was her It's probably just wishful thinking. It's not weird to go a year and still have obsessive thoughts. Happened to me recently (a few years ago), when I was dumped and given no real reason why. Then the contact stopped. And I mean it stopped completely. I did eventually reach a point where I could start a new relationship without the ghost of the past haunting me, but it took forever. I think every break-up is different. Some hit harder than others. Time doesn't really mean anything here. If it's only supposed to take half the time the relationship lasted to get over it, well I certainly flunked out on that one and then some. Each person is different. Each break-up is different. No sense in beating yourself up about taking "too long" to move on. It's only gonna make you feel worse.
Sugarkane Posted December 22, 2011 Posted December 22, 2011 When you get no answers and The breakup is unresolved, then no wonder why. It creates a complete disconnect in making any sense out if the BU.
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