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ShannonMI Established Member

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Just horny! I'm a tall, dark, and handsome man.

 

 

 

The way I understood it he ended the blow job and it had nothing to do with the quality of the blow job. Something about him not wanting to be out late... really lame.

 

 

 

When a girl gives you a bj you cum in her mouth! You don't start talking about how its getting late. You probably really insulted her.

How can you cum when the girl licks it a few times and gives a few half hearted suckles? Unless he's a porn star and can cum on command, It's not that easy hahahahahahahaha:lmao: You're a man and you should know that.

 

It's very easy to say you are tall, dark and handsome when you are on the internet. Lets see some pictures.

Dust Established Member

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How can you cum when the girl licks it a few times and gives a few half hearted suckles? Unless he's a porn star and can cum on command, It's not that easy hahahahahahahaha:lmao: You're a man and you should know that.

 

It's very easy to say you are tall, dark and handsome when you are on the internet. Lets see some pictures.

 

My point is he's the one who stopped the oral said it was getting late. He also never said she was doing some crappy job.

 

It was very easy say, and even if I did show you my pictures I doubt you'd believe your eyes! If I made a video you'd really be in shock!

ShannonMI Established Member

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My point is he's the one who stopped the oral said it was getting late. He also never said she was doing some crappy job.

 

It was very easy say, and even if I did show you my pictures I doubt you'd believe your eyes! If I made a video you'd really be in shock!

Hahahahaha send me some through PM. I wanna see what all the fuss is about.:laugh:

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Hahahahaha send me some through PM. I wanna see what all the fuss is about.:laugh:

 

It seems like most of your posts relate to blowjobs... Is there any particular reason? Damn, we should party

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Op, she sounds pretty easy and like shed be full of drama.

 

Esp considering the fact that she made a new profile, Id call her out on it and then move on. She aint worth it.

 

Its one thing for a girl to put out quick, because I have done it myself. Its another for her to put out quick and then delete her profile and make a new one. Def screams slut trying to keep her options open to me.

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And OP...you HAVE to be careful about hooking up with someone that quick. 2 to 3 days is nothing...be smart or end up with an STD brah.

 

Hell a week of talking or more would have been better. And this girls behavior clearly shows you cant put much trust in her.

 

Did you ask her of her health status before things move heated up? Sure people can lie, but its always smart to at LEAST do that.

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OP-- I think you are in for a whole parade of girls who are just messes! I agree with some of the other ladies who have posted. Either this girl is uncomfortable with how the date went upon some reflection, or she has probably done the same thing with other guys since you last saw her. Either way, it ain't good for you.

 

If a guy said to me the things you said to this girl I would never talk to him again. Maybe you got something you wanted, so in that sense you "did something right," but this isn't going to work for you most of the time because most girls won't behave this way.

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OP-- I think you are in for a whole parade of girls who are just messes!

 

When OP has has -one- date from the OLD site for 8 months? That ain't a parade, more like a funeral. I think he is doing GREAT! Everyone should be congratulating him on getting a tongue applied to his dictionary. Could we all just step back and see that he has had one OLD in 8 months? He's not Mr. Hyde, just a normal guy. Likely the girl is too, although the double profile is still very troubling.

 

I mean what is he supposed to do? The girl is handsy with him on the date and in his enthusiasm, even though he has to get home and study, he blurts out how much he would like to "eat that tuna." She is ready but OTR, he sucks her nips and she gives the typical 19 y.o. version of a BJ (I had one in HS actually BLOW on my d-ck because that's what she thought a BJ was). OP had a GREAT date and here's to many more.

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Or rather I imagine you ladies would rather he get all nervous, Uncle Fester style and tremble out "may I kiss thee?" I think not. He asked for what he wanted, they weren't drunk, she was willin. Story of life.

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Or rather I imagine you ladies would rather he get all nervous, Uncle Fester style and tremble out "may I kiss thee?" I think not. He asked for what he wanted, they weren't drunk, she was willin. Story of life.

 

Me nervous? I think not haha. I didn't feel an ounce of nervousness at all except for maybe because I was scared of getting caught doing all this in the car.

 

Problem with me is actually getting dates and getting into a relationship.

 

Anyways, haven't text her for 3 days now and thinking of how I am going to text her is troubling me. I don't know if i should start with the double profile thing or about our next date again (I have already mention the next date 2 times already, asking when to meet, shes answer she doesn't know yet)

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Me nervous? I think not haha. I didn't feel an ounce of nervousness at all except for maybe because I was scared of getting caught doing all this in the car.

 

Problem with me is actually getting dates and getting into a relationship.

 

Anyways, haven't text her for 3 days now and thinking of how I am going to text her is troubling me. I don't know if i should start with the double profile thing or about our next date again (I have already mention the next date 2 times already, asking when to meet, shes answer she doesn't know yet)

Ask her what's with the double profile. See what her answer is. That is very odd for someone to do.

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Ask her what's with the double profile. See what her answer is. That is very odd for someone to do.

 

I confronted by saying, "Welcome back to OkCupid!"

 

She says "Lol you saw"

 

when I said "Haha was I not suppose to see?"

 

She says "I don't care lol that's how bored I was :("

Dust Established Member

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I confronted by saying, "Welcome back to OkCupid!"

 

She says "Lol you saw"

 

when I said "Haha was I not suppose to see?"

 

She says "I don't care lol that's how bored I was :("

 

Well if you like her its about time you showed her some real excitement. Now answer my damn question why in the heck did you stop her bj. Because we have some real problems if you were that worried about not being out late... I mean really dude is your penis Cinderella?

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Well if you like her its about time you showed her some real excitement. Now answer my damn question why in the heck did you stop her bj. Because we have some real problems if you were that worried about not being out late... I mean really dude is your penis Cinderella?

 

No apparently you weren't reading carefully that's why I never answered you.

 

I said that the bj was stopped because she came up and mention that... don't I have finals to study for? It was like 12:30am and I had mentioned before we went on the date, that I can't be out too late and have to study. We started at 9pm and I was out with her till 12:40 am or so.

 

I paused for like 3-5 seconds and contemplated which was more important. A blowjob or my education... well you know how that turned out. I ain't that desperate for sex, but more so probably a relationship.

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No apparently you weren't reading carefully that's why I never answered you.

 

I said that the bj was stopped because she came up and mention that... don't I have finals to study for? It was like 12:30am and I had mentioned before we went on the date, that I can't be out too late and have to study. We started at 9pm and I was out with her till 12:40 am or so.

 

I paused for like 3-5 seconds and contemplated which was more important. A blowjob or my education... well you know how that turned out. I ain't that desperate for sex, but more so probably a relationship.

 

Reading carefully? Little sir step off your high horse this is the first time you went into this much detail about what you were thinking and what exactly went down.

 

I'm not going to sugar coat this you were very lame. I say that with the best of intentions of getting you to learn from your mistakes.

 

It may have been getting late but you owed to yourself, and to her to say "you just keep on going." Also how long does it take for you to orgasm from a BJ I mean you're really pushing it if its getting over 15 minutes and your not really close.

 

Let me explain something to you about sex and relationships... They can't be seperated. They go hand in hand. So when you were acting like "yeah it's late you can drink my cum some other time" then txting her "wow that was comfortable" you were blowing not just the sex but the relationship also.

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Reading carefully? Little sir step off your high horse this is the first time you went into this much detail about what you were thinking and what exactly went down.

 

I'm not going to sugar coat this you were very lame. I say that with the best of intentions of getting you to learn from your mistakes.

 

It may have been getting late but you owed to yourself, and to her to say "you just keep on going." Also how long does it take for you to orgasm from a BJ I mean you're really pushing it if its getting over 15 minutes and your not really close.

 

Let me explain something to you about sex and relationships... They can't be seperated. They go hand in hand. So when you were acting like "yeah it's late you can drink my cum some other time" then txting her "wow that was comfortable" you were blowing not just the sex but the relationship also.

 

haha it only went for 2 minutes. Maybe even less.. Another evidence that you weren't reading as I said she only did 1-2 licks and 2-3 sucks in a previous post. That doesn't sound like 15 minutes right?

 

Of course sex and relationships go hand in hand. This isn't the first relationship for me. I'm pretty blunt and forward and my connection with her was enough to be really comfortable with no worries so I had to say it because it stood out amongst other dates. Comfortable might have been the wrong word. In addition, my thinking about me not going through with the blow job is to show I am not desperate or see her as an object of some sort. I was seeing it as me having discipline and control. I am kind of regretting it now.. because I want some of that and we can't even meet yet because supposedly she has a protective dad! But **** it, it will be all the better when we do meet again.

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haha it only went for 2 minutes. Maybe even less.. Another evidence that you weren't reading as I said she only did 1-2 licks and 2-3 sucks in a previous post. That doesn't sound like 15 minutes right?

 

Little sir are you not brilliant enough to understand me? I wasn't saying you had a bj for 15 mins. I'm saying how fricken long does a bj take you couldn't let the date go 15 more minutes. You're really going to say "yeah it's getting late!" Then run off to jack off onto your study materials...

 

Of course sex and relationships go hand in hand. This isn't the first relationship for me. I'm pretty blunt and forward and my connection with her was enough to be really comfortable with no worries so I had to say it because it stood out amongst other dates. Comfortable might have been the wrong word. In addition' date=' my thinking about me not going through with the blow job is to show I am not desperate or see her as an object of some sort. I was seeing it as me having discipline and control. I am kind of regretting it now.. because I want some of that and we can't even meet yet because supposedly she has a protective dad! But **** it, it will be all the better when we do meet again. [/quote']

 

"Comfortable might have been the wrong word" are you really this dense. No one wants to hear about the comfortable time you had with them!

 

Stopping a blow job after 2 licks doesn't make you look like you have control, it makes you seem gay at best. Enough of your silly thinking that it would show discipline and control! Do you read the stuff you write? You keep asking me, it's unbelievable.

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Little sir are you not brilliant enough to understand me? I wasn't saying you had a bj for 15 mins. I'm saying how fricken long does a bj take you couldn't let the date go 15 more minutes. You're really going to say "yeah it's getting late!" Then run off to jack off onto your study materials...

 

 

 

"Comfortable might have been the wrong word" are you really this dense. No one wants to hear about the comfortable time you had with them!

 

Stopping a blow job after 2 licks doesn't make you look like you have control, it makes you seem gay at best. Enough of your silly thinking that it would show discipline and control! Do you read the stuff you write? You keep asking me, it's unbelievable.

 

Well I guess I saw some reluctance from her part, so I didn't push it and ended it there. But ya 15 minutes more wouldn't have been a problem definitely.

ShannonMI Established Member

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I confronted by saying, "Welcome back to OkCupid!"

 

She says "Lol you saw"

 

when I said "Haha was I not suppose to see?"

 

She says "I don't care lol that's how bored I was :("

Oooook....odd. So she made a new profile because she was bored? She sounds strange. Lose this one.

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Yeah, I'm a bit concerned with that comment, or did she mean she was bored with you? Either way, she sounds arrogant and selfish, and up to no good.

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