Wolf18 Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 and, I will add that I meant being seen as an attractive human being that men want to spend time with, when they get nervous, too, etc... not wanting to be a princess with entitlement issues. I'm talking about normal courting (or whatever it's called nowadays, without the blowjobs in a parking lot, on the first date). Leggo Your Ego. Why do you need to intimidate people with your looks in order to feel loved by a man? That's not wanting to be loved, that's wanting power, which is precisely what a princess with entitlement issues is. Why don't you take your own ludicrous advice you give me Anela? I'm sure that regardless of what you look like, you could intimidate some overweight nerd that reaks of cheese doodles with curly hair and jeffrey dahmer glasses just by saying "Hi". I'm down to treat a girl like I would any other living thing I care deeply about, but sorry, you better have the personality of mother theresa of calcutta for me to put you on a pedestal and be at your whim. Men aren't alive to fingerbang your ego, even if as a whole men do unfortunately treat very beautiful women like they are Godesses. But women also do it to very hot men, the latter has a much more narrow criteria than what entails a beautiful woman.
Untouchable_Fire Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 and, I will add that I meant being seen as an attractive human being that men want to spend time with, when they get nervous, too, etc... not wanting to be a princess with entitlement issues. I'm talking about normal courting (or whatever it's called nowadays, without the blowjobs in a parking lot, on the first date). When I was dating that pissed me off more than anything. I had this woman practically try to stuff me into her car to take home. Actually on more than one occasion I turned down some first date sex. Only to never hear from the girl again. One told me later she assumed I was gay or not attracted to her. Do I have to attempt rape you in order to prove I'm straight and like you. Can't women just take my word for it?
iris219 Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Women's lack of romantic interest can be fixed in 2 minutes for almost every one of them: Lose weight and dress like a slut. Seriously. Lose weight and dress like a slut and even if you have an ugly face you will always have men interested in you. You are so clueless! Stop making statements about what happens to women when you can't know. This might be true if you go to a club where the guys are there solely to hook up with someone (anyone). This is absolutely false if you go to places with actual adults. I wore a form-fitting sweater dress (would't call it slutty) less night and I have a very good body, and no one approached me. They either weren't single, not interested, or not out to hit on women. Men who are mature adults are often not out in order to pick up women. Many women, even cute ones, have no one interested in them. I'm not sure why I continue to try to explain these things to you.
LexiB Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 went on a net meeting again last wk. I dolled up and wore wake -up, was told that i look good. The date went well, and there was some conversation. But in the end, as usual, he didnt contact me again after that single meeting I really now think that im very ugly , so ugly no guy in his decent mind will even consider knowing me better as a friend Do you ever try contacting any of these men after your dates? Worth a shot. :-/
verhrzn Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 You are so clueless! Stop making statements about what happens to women when you can't know. This might be true if you go to a club where the guys are there solely to hook up with someone (anyone). This is absolutely false if you go to places with actual adults. I wore a form-fitting sweater dress (would't call it slutty) less night and I have a very good body, and no one approached me. They either weren't single, not interested, or not out to hit on women. Men who are mature adults are often not out in order to pick up women. Many women, even cute ones, have no one interested in them. I'm not sure why I continue to try to explain these things to you. He's just gonna come back and claim that the men WOULD have been interested in you if you'd approached them, but you're an entitled princess who expects men to cater to her hand and foot. And you're too picky... you would have only accepted advances from tall, model-esque, rich doctors anyway, so that's why none of the guys bothered. OP, the point is, while you may be ugly, don't jump to that conclusion just because men aren't interested in you. You could have easily just hit a rough patch or there may be something else going on. Could you describe your last few male encounters in a little bit more detail?
westrock Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 went on a net meeting again last wk. I dolled up and wore wake -up, was told that i look good. The date went well, and there was some conversation. But in the end, as usual, he didnt contact me again after that single meeting I really now think that im very ugly , so ugly no guy in his decent mind will even consider knowing me better as a friend You seem to be concluding he didn't contact you again because of your looks. How do you know that? Even if this was a blind date, he told you that you looked good, so you have the looks for him. More importantly, how were you conducting yourself on the date? Did you flirt with him? Did you let him know you had a good time with him? Provide more details about what happened on the date.
FL Lady Posted January 16, 2012 Posted January 16, 2012 I have been unsuccessful in the dating scene for 7 years. I met many guys from dating sites, social events and through friends. About 90% of guys who once see me at the sites or events treated me as invisible and ignorede after seeing me. They choosed to chat with other gals. I took the initiative to know a few guys but I always get rejected. Ppl commented that I have a gd perrrrsonality with ok looks yet guys dont and refuse to knoe me better in dating scenes. Im very sad because I felt that becos of my looks, I cant have decent relationships How about learning to spell & correct use of grammar? That'd be a start.
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