dude1986 Posted December 20, 2011 Posted December 20, 2011 hi guys need your advice in short i was with a girl 3 years ..we broke up and said she sees no future of us..i am almost over her but we bought a dog together and he is also 3 years she said me to leave the flat of which i use to pay and i gave her everything in the flat i bought ..in the stupid thinking she will come back...it has been 5 months now...i have her on facebook i want to delete her from there and clean my life ..she once called me said she is throwing the dog ..i said i will keep him then she said she changed her mind the dog will be with her ... will deleting her from facebook is good or bad ....i just think that i will burn all bridges...and the dog problem ..i am confused
twinkles Posted December 21, 2011 Posted December 21, 2011 Don't bother deleting her as a friend. You'll only find alternative methods of looking at her profile. You'll find yourself checking it often at first then a few weeks from now less and less. Eventually you will see her relationship status as in a relationship. You'll be hurt but you'll get over it. I keep my relationship status blank. I suggest you do the same. It's nobody's business if you are in a relationship or not and besides your real friends will know anyway. The way I look at it you loved them and they were your friend. They are still your friend, you still love them .. you just aren't intimate with them anymore. You don't delete someone out of your mind with a click of a mouse. I still have my ex on facebook. Never know what the future has in store. One day they will just be a friend from the past like most of your facebook friends are now. Do you really keep in touch with that friend you made in grade two.
Author dude1986 Posted December 21, 2011 Author Posted December 21, 2011 thanks but i tried everything for her gave my all possesions for her happiness and i went through so much financial pressure but she does not even shows respect about ,what i have done still has ego and thinks she can control me ... and i tried everything for 4 months ..but she is sleeping with all guys and all the stuff i think i must gain my power back and show i am better now..even though you made hell for me ..btw i am studying in another country far from home ..and i had nowhere to go ,and she said me to leave the flat in 7 days ...ultimatum...and i do not know language good i mean here in europe where i study they do not speak english good..so maybe you will understand how much pressure i went through
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