helpme231 Posted May 30, 2004 Posted May 30, 2004 What do you do if you are lonely and you still miss your ex boyfriend a whole lot? Like, I am so busy with life (kids, work, etc.) that I don't have much time to date ( and I kind of like it like that too!). But what do you do on the times when you are lonely? I was up front and honest with him about how I felt (like he was making me pay for the mistakes of other women like how all of them like money and they were starting to get on his nerves, and a few other comments that he made that I didn't agree with). So, I broke it off with him but I still love him very much. So what do you do about that lonely feeling if everything else in life is going better than well? Especially if the last thing you want to do is date someone? HELP!
moimeme Posted May 30, 2004 Posted May 30, 2004 Find things to do. Make friends. Occupy yourself other ways.
Author helpme231 Posted May 30, 2004 Author Posted May 30, 2004 I do all of that...but sometimes you just get that feeling and its like, good grief, go away already! But it won't go away! But I just don't know what to do with that feeling...
Author helpme231 Posted May 30, 2004 Author Posted May 30, 2004 I guess you could call the feeling the urge to merge...but without the sex....
Shasta Posted May 30, 2004 Posted May 30, 2004 Are you artistic in any way? Use those feelings to write poetry, paint, etc. I actually ended up making a website when I didn't have a boyfriend and was missing him. I do alot of digital art stuff on my computer. It isn't the best stuff, but it helps me get out my feelings.
Author helpme231 Posted May 30, 2004 Author Posted May 30, 2004 maybe I should try that....just that you don't want anybody but you want somebody...anyone know how that feels? It sucks, but when you can smell bull**** a mile away, it kinda narrows down your choices and then with my life being hectic, that makes it even harder so for now I kinda have given up....and its crazy for me, right, because I go like 1 or 2 years by myself ( no dates either!) and then I will meet someone and it will last for a year and then I am back to the 1 or 2 years crap again.
simplybrill Posted May 31, 2004 Posted May 31, 2004 Sex and the City -- its great stuff and it beats those lonely blues when you dont have a hubby - believe me, I know how it is, I just broke up with someone and its the only thing that gets my mind off of him, and the deep down icky feeling. Put the kids to bed, and pop in the DVD's - they'll have you laughing for hours! I think laughter cures a broken heart, good luck!
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