prosense Posted December 20, 2011 Posted December 20, 2011 So, I got to know this woman and asked her out twice. To date we had two dates. During the second date, I asked her if she has plans for NYE, she said no- Regardless, I asked her at the end of the second date if I can ask her out on a third. She said yes. In the meantime, I wanted to spend NYE with her so after 3 days, I called her to see if she would like to spend NYE with me. She said yes as well. (And it is not like I call her every night,, text her every day. I do it when necessary. and she always picks up and is very responsive to my texts) Now, I can say things are going well since she accpeted my proposition to spend NYE. But, I am tad frustrated because she never intitates anything. Grant it, we are in the very early stage of dating and men need to do all the work. But, over the course of time, she never really texted me, called me or sent msg before I did so. So yeah, I have been doing all the work. On dates, she leans forward, talks a lot which I believe is a good sign. And she agreed to meet on NYE. But, that's it. So the questions is Am I expecting too much? Or is this just natural.. given that this is the inception of dating. FYI, we haven't kissed. Just one hug. But conversations are great. Not really touchy feely. (I don't think she is a coy type. but I will kick it up a notch) Thank you!
YaOldBuckaroo Posted December 20, 2011 Posted December 20, 2011 So, I got to know this woman and asked her out twice. To date we had two dates. During the second date, I asked her if she has plans for NYE, she said no- Regardless, I asked her at the end of the second date if I can ask her out on a third. She said yes. In the meantime, I wanted to spend NYE with her so after 3 days, I called her to see if she would like to spend NYE with me. She said yes as well. (And it is not like I call her every night,, text her every day. I do it when necessary. and she always picks up and is very responsive to my texts) Now, I can say things are going well since she accpeted my proposition to spend NYE. But, I am tad frustrated because she never intitates anything. Grant it, we are in the very early stage of dating and men need to do all the work. But, over the course of time, she never really texted me, called me or sent msg before I did so. So yeah, I have been doing all the work. On dates, she leans forward, talks a lot which I believe is a good sign. And she agreed to meet on NYE. But, that's it. So the questions is Am I expecting too much? Or is this just natural.. given that this is the inception of dating. FYI, we haven't kissed. Just one hug. But conversations are great. Not really touchy feely. (I don't think she is a coy type. but I will kick it up a notch) Thank you! Hey prosense Yup it does sound she's attracted to you since she's already willing to spend the new year with you despite the fact that you've only met her how many times so far. But it also seems like she isn't completely comfortable being with you yet, which is why she doesn't initiate communication when you're apart. Here's a helpful article: http://www.scribd.com/doc/4654457/Attract-Women-With-4-Routines-From-Black-Belt-Seduction Max
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