MammaMia Posted December 20, 2011 Posted December 20, 2011 What were the most hurtful words that your spouse said to you after the A was exposed? For me it was that he told me a few times that he liked her a lot and also proceeded to tell me they had a lot in common... To this I responded that this was the beginning of a love story....
SoMovinOn Posted December 20, 2011 Posted December 20, 2011 My STBXWW has told me one of the most hurtful things I said to her after D-Day was that I called her a piece of ****. I don't recall anything specific she said that I found particularly hurtful - just the whole thing overall. The concept that I was the guy she wanted (and still wants), she had the M and the life she wanted, and it still wasn't enough for her.
Chi townD Posted December 20, 2011 Posted December 20, 2011 She said I was a loser and I was never going to amount to anything and always going to at working dead-end jobs. I proved her wrong!
unodos1011 Posted December 21, 2011 Posted December 21, 2011 He told me it was my fault that he fell for her in the first place...and that she was his best friend. There was a lot of things said that weren't meant to hurt but it still felt like a punch in the gut.
stopdropandroll Posted December 21, 2011 Posted December 21, 2011 She told me he's a great guy and I'd probably really like him.
flutterbykiss Posted December 21, 2011 Posted December 21, 2011 That it would have been easier to be with her. He was angry and 'fogged' and apologized when he saw her for what she was, but the pain and doubt still remains with me.
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