YouNeverKnow86 Posted December 19, 2011 Posted December 19, 2011 So it seems it is possible for a person to still have a rebound years after a terrible breakup. These individuals seem to not be capable of giving their heart to someone else until such issues are resolved. How do these people resolve their issues with their previous ex (not being over them/hurt)? Do they even realize their previous relationship or the one that caused such hurt causes this? When will they once again be capable of a real relationship?
Author YouNeverKnow86 Posted December 19, 2011 Author Posted December 19, 2011 I know people that are always looking for "perfect" and as soon as things start getting serious they start doubting the relationship. Each individual had a bad breakup with a previous ex years earlier (relationships were all long term). They will swear up and down the ex has nothing to do with it and that they are over them. Are they lieing? Or do they really believe they are over their ex's but really are not? This causes them to be guarded possibly?
mike588 Posted December 19, 2011 Posted December 19, 2011 I know people that are always looking for "perfect" and as soon as things start getting serious they start doubting the relationship. Each individual had a bad breakup with a previous ex years earlier (relationships were all long term). They will swear up and down the ex has nothing to do with it and that they are over them. Are they lieing? Or do they really believe they are over their ex's but really are not? This causes them to be guarded possibly? My ex told me several times she was over her ex. (we dated for a year) now I assume she was just trying to convince herself of this when she really wasn't.
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