JJJJKKKKJJJJ Posted December 19, 2011 Posted December 19, 2011 My ex and I dated for about 2 years and we ended it over the summer. We remained in contact through-out the break; but both came to the agreement that contact shouldn't happen anylonger. The break-up was messy...it was initiated by me, but kept by him (yes, I changed my mind and wanted to fix things.) Anyway, long story short, it didn't work out. We both have moved on and are in new relationships and we're both seemingly happy. We broke contact back in October, and I have not initiated contact with him at. A few weeks ago he called me on a late saturday evening and I let it go to voicemail. He called to touch base and catch up...a very nonchalant message was left by him. I never returned it. Last week he contacted my sister, and talked about a memory we all shared and how he misses everyone and asked her to say hi to me. That e-mail was never returned. The other day he texted me "I miss you...everyday :("...I'm very confused on how to handle this whole situation, since we're both in a new relationships. I want to respond to him, but am lost for words.
smokey bear Posted December 19, 2011 Posted December 19, 2011 Do you want him back? What age are you both and how many months have you been seperated?
Author JJJJKKKKJJJJ Posted December 21, 2011 Author Posted December 21, 2011 We are 25 and 28 (him being older). And I honestly cannot answer whether or not I want him back. I have a really good thing going on. I just don't know how to reply.
Sugarkane Posted December 21, 2011 Posted December 21, 2011 Sounds like a case of too little, too late.
ZimboGon Posted December 21, 2011 Posted December 21, 2011 Well, was he a good boyfriend? Don't let something like this pass you up. I mean, if you are at the point where you could consider leaving the person you are with for him doesn't say much about your current relationship. If you really cared about what you had now you wouldn't even consider this and you would ignore him, wouldn't you? Normally i would say it is wrong to leave who you are with for another person, because it displays someone as being fickle and you could never know if they would do it to another person, but in a case where its an old flame you were very happy with, i would say take it into consideration but make sure you don't destroy what you have now for nothing. He could just be lonely.
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