colosseum Posted December 18, 2011 Posted December 18, 2011 girl and i work for the same large organization but for diff departments. we are friendly and are on the fence between acquaintances/friends. she's very hard to read because she is so genial. i also know that she and one of my coworkers (and good friend) have been spending more time with each other than i have with her, so i presumed her interests lay elsewhere. she hosted a house party, i went. she got a bit buzzed, and while playing games she was unusually and very physically affectionate toward me. i reciprocated a little, giving credence to her affection more to alcohol than her genuine interests. when people were wrapping up and leaving, she asked me twice about my condition to drive when i'd been drinking nothing but water. "i want you to be safe, are you going to be okay?" the again she asked, "do you think you can get back home?" she asked this in front of everyone else, and asked no one else about their sobriety. was this her being friendly, or suggesting me to stay around after others left? (i ended up coming home, since i thought it was just her being friendly; was i wrong?)
Oxy Moronovich Posted December 18, 2011 Posted December 18, 2011 Rule #1: Don't get physical with drunk women. Many men have been brought to court after they got physical with a drunk woman. Rule #2: Don't try to get with women at your job. If you do, it'll create unnecessary awkwardness. If the relationship goes sour, she'll start making your life a living hell at work. You should even avoid getting with a woman in your own apartment building. Rule #3: This is the best advice you'll ever get regarding women: http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&cp=6&gs_id=m&xhr=t&q=disregard+females+acquire+currency&gs_sm=&gs_upl=&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.,cf.osb&biw=1192&bih=510&wrapid=tljp132422631535508&um=1&ie=UTF-8&tbm=isch&source=og&sa=N&tab=wi&ei=EBfuTpm2Aa3SiALtn6XKBA
jobaba Posted December 18, 2011 Posted December 18, 2011 girl and i work for the same large organization but for diff departments. we are friendly and are on the fence between acquaintances/friends. she's very hard to read because she is so genial. i also know that she and one of my coworkers (and good friend) have been spending more time with each other than i have with her, so i presumed her interests lay elsewhere. she hosted a house party, i went. she got a bit buzzed, and while playing games she was unusually and very physically affectionate toward me. i reciprocated a little, giving credence to her affection more to alcohol than her genuine interests. when people were wrapping up and leaving, she asked me twice about my condition to drive when i'd been drinking nothing but water. "i want you to be safe, are you going to be okay?" the again she asked, "do you think you can get back home?" she asked this in front of everyone else, and asked no one else about their sobriety. was this her being friendly, or suggesting me to stay around after others left? (i ended up coming home, since i thought it was just her being friendly; was i wrong?) Nobody ever died from making out with somebody that was drunk. My most serious relationship to date originated in that fashion. And if she was asking if you were OK to drive, she wasn't that drunk. If she suggested you all pile in her car and get more shots at the local bar, and then you carry her off the bar toilet passed out back to her bed ... that's drunk. If you like her pursue. And make haste before your co-worker beats you to it.
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