randomgirl1 Posted December 18, 2011 Posted December 18, 2011 (edited) here's the bad stuff: I'll curse my mom out like a sailor if she gets on my nerves. I don't like school addicted to the internet. If I could fight I would but I'm too smal. I'm aggressive I don't let anyone tell me what to do. I will put them in their place and I don't care what that takes or who they are. I am aggressive but never have hit anyone since I was 8. I am not so interested in school. I want tats and piercing but I have none. I don't act ladylike clumsy sit on sidewalks to pass time. good things I've never stolen anything ever never did a legal crime besides loitering which was like only once it was a problem in a very empty mall for 8 hours waiting for a ride. I do wait in stores to pass time usually an hour. I've never done drugs or alcohol. I've never smoked. I've never touched anyof this. I've never had a bf kissed a guy or done anything at all with a guy and am a virgin. I've never dressed like a whore. I'm pretty simple tomboyish type. I don't like clubs never gone to one or to a party for that matter one with like drugs or w.e. I don't hang around people who do stuff like that. To me being drunk is just odd and a little crazy. Well people sure act crazy when they're drunk. Also I'm shy I don't get into business and won't let them get into mine. I'm good at school if I apply myself. People say I'm a bad girl in personality but I don't do anything I only talk. And yell if it really gets me angered. So what does that make me and what exactly is a bad or good girl? Most people do not know half the things I just said like the fact that I don't do drugs or alcohol that I'm a virgin or that I've never had any criminal associations I pretty much keep to myself so I'm wondering what is it? And what am I? Idk really anyway? Edited December 18, 2011 by randomgirl1
Nexus One Posted December 18, 2011 Posted December 18, 2011 You don't have to put a label on it, you are what you are. Perhaps if you HAD TO define it, then you could call yourself a bold little girl with a big mouth that doesn't hurt anyone when it comes down to it. But perhaps it's not even that, perhaps you're just an assertive girl who acts a bit tomboyish. But bad? Nah.
chryssy83 Posted December 18, 2011 Posted December 18, 2011 You sound like a spitfire who makes responsible choices, stands up for herself when necessary, and doesn't victimize other people. I think a "good girl" implies good for the sake of being good, and "bad girl" implies a mess. It's best to be neither. (And guys like a girl they can take home to mom but who can also challenge them....)
RecordProducer Posted December 18, 2011 Posted December 18, 2011 here's the bad stuff: I'll curse my mom out like a sailor if she gets on my nerves. You're not a bad girl. But you have a bad character. It's probably just a teenage thing, though. How old are you? My sons are 13 and they curse and yell at me. I can tell you, it hurts. It hurts like heck. I often cry because of that (not in front of them) and I feel constantly depressed because they disrespect me like that. I never thought my sweet, little boys would become like that with me. I am a single mom, by the way, but my sons prefer to be with their rich daddy and his whore. So I rarely even see them and when they come, they are good 70% of the time but the rest they yell, criticize, and nothing I do is ever good enough for them. I dream of a happy family where they're respectful, nice and kind to their mom, but it's just a fantasy. The reality is a nightmare. No man or anyone else has ever hurt me like my sons with their mouths. We have a saying in my former country,"The tongue doesn't have bones but it can cut bones."
Author randomgirl1 Posted December 18, 2011 Author Posted December 18, 2011 You're not a bad girl. But you have a bad character. It's probably just a teenage thing, though. How old are you? My sons are 13 and they curse and yell at me. I can tell you, it hurts. It hurts like heck. I often cry because of that (not in front of them) and I feel constantly depressed because they disrespect me like that. I never thought my sweet, little boys would become like that with me. I am a single mom, by the way, but my sons prefer to be with their rich daddy and his whore. So I rarely even see them and when they come, they are good 70% of the time but the rest they yell, criticize, and nothing I do is ever good enough for them. I dream of a happy family where they're respectful, nice and kind to their mom, but it's just a fantasy. The reality is a nightmare. No man or anyone else has ever hurt me like my sons with their mouths. We have a saying in my former country,"The tongue doesn't have bones but it can cut bones." I'm so sorry that you are mistreated by your kids. My mom abused me but no one understands that. Emotionally. Which is more why I treat her that way. I'm 18. If I had good parents who let me go to school I have spoken well to her. And even loved her...
Dust Posted December 18, 2011 Posted December 18, 2011 I'm so sorry that you are mistreated by your kids. My mom abused me but no one understands that. Emotionally. Which is more why I treat her that way. I'm 18. If I had good parents who let me go to school I have spoken well to her. And even loved her... You're old enough now to respect yourself. That means gaining a certain level of control and responsibility for your actions.
RecordProducer Posted December 18, 2011 Posted December 18, 2011 I'm so sorry that you are mistreated by your kids. My mom abused me but no one understands that. Emotionally. Which is more why I treat her that way. I'm 18. And even loved her... Thanks and I'm sorry that your mom abused you emotionally. How did your she abuse you? Did she yell and insult you? If I had good parents who let me go to school I have spoken well to her. What do you mean? Can you elaborate a bit? Are your parents together? What's their relationship like? Do they respect each other?
Lostinlife4now Posted December 18, 2011 Posted December 18, 2011 Hi randomgirl! Listen to me do yourself a favor GET AN EDUCATION!!!!! You will not and can not get anywhere in this life without an EDUCATION! My daughter was just like you when she was in high school, she never went, barely made it out, smoked pot, stole, drove without a license, yes I can go on and on....BUT BUT when she got into college, SHE WAS A CHANGED PERSON!!! SHE GREW UP!!! She just graduated in May from a great school....Am so proud of her...... She also used to cuss at me and MAKE MY LIFE MISERABLE,,,,Like I wasn't miserable enough......lost a child a few years back....But she has grown (she is 24) into a beautiful caring young woman who has a bright future ahead of her. AND YOU WILL TO.....hang in there, and ALWAYS STAND UP FOR YOUR CONVICTIONS!!!!!!!!!!! You do and feel what is right for you! Believe me listen to all of these posters on this board, collectively we are experienced in the good and bad things in life. We are better than any psychologist or head doctor out there. And your not a bad girl, just young and inexperienced.
Author randomgirl1 Posted December 18, 2011 Author Posted December 18, 2011 Hi randomgirl! Listen to me do yourself a favor GET AN EDUCATION!!!!! You will not and can not get anywhere in this life without an EDUCATION! My daughter was just like you when she was in high school, she never went, barely made it out, smoked pot, stole, drove without a license, yes I can go on and on....BUT BUT when she got into college, SHE WAS A CHANGED PERSON!!! SHE GREW UP!!! She just graduated in May from a great school....Am so proud of her...... She also used to cuss at me and MAKE MY LIFE MISERABLE,,,,Like I wasn't miserable enough......lost a child a few years back....But she has grown (she is 24) into a beautiful caring young woman who has a bright future ahead of her. AND YOU WILL TO.....hang in there, and ALWAYS STAND UP FOR YOUR CONVICTIONS!!!!!!!!!!! You do and feel what is right for you! Believe me listen to all of these posters on this board, collectively we are experienced in the good and bad things in life. We are better than any psychologist or head doctor out there. And your not a bad girl, just young and inexperienced. I have a 3.4 in high school and a graduate last may. I've never stolen or done drugs. But I do need to learn how to drive. My mom didn't even have a car to drive me. I'm actually a freshman in school. I'm nice to most everyone else. As long as they're nice to me. I don't live with my mom. She isolated me called me crazy and told the neighbor untrue things. So obviously she is no mother of mine. Crack addicted moms are better they let their kids go to school and socialize. She's mentally insane... She's said gays & lesbian are mentally ill and they should kill themselves. She also told me my grandpa abused me
Author randomgirl1 Posted December 18, 2011 Author Posted December 18, 2011 when he didn't. She says a lot of delusional things and needs help. Therefore I don't consider her my mom. She caused trouble so it's more like how I'd treat my worst enemy really
RecordProducer Posted December 23, 2011 Posted December 23, 2011 She's said gays & lesbian are mentally ill and they should kill themselves. Are you gay?
Author randomgirl1 Posted December 25, 2011 Author Posted December 25, 2011 Are you gay? yea kind of I like transgirls. That technically makes me bisexual...
Dust Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 yea kind of I like transgirls. That technically makes me bisexual... Transgirls? Like guys who become girls?
Author randomgirl1 Posted December 25, 2011 Author Posted December 25, 2011 yea that's what I said. They can be very pretty post and pre op it doesn't matter to me. My celebrity crush the biggest one is a post-op transgirl. She's gorgeously perfect. I've liked some irl well like two. I also tend to like guys with an androgenous look like more femme faces too. I just think girls are prettier than guys. Their faces the hair body everything really. So yea I'm bisexual pretty much......
Dust Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 yea that's what I said. They can be very pretty post and pre op it doesn't matter to me. My celebrity crush the biggest one is a post-op transgirl. She's gorgeously perfect. I've liked some irl well like two. I also tend to like guys with an androgenous look like more femme faces too. I just think girls are prettier than guys. Their faces the hair body everything really. So yea I'm bisexual pretty much...... So you like girls and trangender... or you specifically like transgender only?
Author randomgirl1 Posted December 25, 2011 Author Posted December 25, 2011 idk thing is I like them but I don't know what I'd do. I've had crushes and fantasies and porn ideas but not really of lesbianism. Just like guy to girl stuff. I'd flirt with a girl. So yea I guess in many ways I do like girls like I said already. Anyway transgirls are girls they just happen to be the ones I've ever been involved with or girls I've had crushes on......
Dust Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 idk thing is I like them but I don't know what I'd do. I've had crushes and fantasies and porn ideas but not really of lesbianism. Just like guy to girl stuff. I'd flirt with a girl. So yea I guess in many ways I do like girls like I said already. Anyway transgirls are girls they just happen to be the ones I've ever been involved with or girls I've had crushes on...... So this is the main problem between you and your mother... that you like chicks with dicks? Did your mom really say you should kill yourself? Look your 18 you should just move out avoid the drama if you can. Maybe things will cool down over time. Control the things you can control and avoid stressing yourself out with this. Don't be disrespectful to your mother. Don't put up with her disrespecting you either. In the end the way you treat people and the way you allow yourself to be treated all come back to you. You have control!
Author randomgirl1 Posted December 25, 2011 Author Posted December 25, 2011 (edited) my favorite transsexual is post op post op means no male genitalia is present. I don't really care if a girl has a penis or not. As long as they are a girl. I don't live with my mom. I moved out the day before I turned 18. she said she'd advise any child of hers who was gay to kill themselves so yea she did say that if I were gay I'd be better off dead. Edited December 25, 2011 by randomgirl1
Dust Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 my favorite transsexual is post op post op means no male genitalia is present. I don't really care if a girl has a penis or not. As long as they are a girl. I don't live with my mom. I moved out the day before I turned 18. she said she'd advise any child of hers who was gay to kill themselves so yea she did say that if I were gay I'd be better off dead. Heres my take on your "So am I a 'good girl' or 'bad girl'?" thread. You just came here to talk about stuff. You have a lot on your mind. We're all happy to talk to you. Thats why we come here because we think its interesting to try to help people and learn stuff from them. You curse your mother out and you don't care about school so you feel guilty. That doesn't make you a bad girl. It just means you've done some things maybe you regret? So, just try to fix the things you want. You felt the need to tell us you are a virgin and never had a bf. So, maybe you want to have a bf and have sex with a guy some day? Your mom said your grandpa abused you? I'm not sure what that means... If you want to talk about it here feel free. Maybe thats why you are into girls who used to be guys.
Author randomgirl1 Posted December 25, 2011 Author Posted December 25, 2011 maybe you should read back I was asked why I don't get along with my mom and I answered. If you don't understand isolation is one of the worst abuses look up psychological abuse/torture. I was never abused by him she made that up because he whipped me. Either way the subejct was diverted by a pp's question on why I don't get along and I answered that's it.
Oxy Moronovich Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 I think you're an annoying girl. You keep making attention whore threads that have no point. Then you've bumped them when everything has been answered.
Author randomgirl1 Posted December 25, 2011 Author Posted December 25, 2011 (edited) yea I don't get on here much so calling me an attention whore is simply you're way to flame a war. Don't even try it I see what you're doing. I have only answered questions throughout the thread. Edited December 25, 2011 by randomgirl1
Oxy Moronovich Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 You're the one who created a non-dating thread in the dating forum. You keep bumping this thread to talk about things that have nothing to do with the topic (what does your opinion on trannies and lesbians have to do with your relationship with your mother?). You made this thread so you could ramble about yourself.
Dust Posted December 25, 2011 Posted December 25, 2011 randomgirl is pretty random. Try not to flame her oxy! So was there anything else you wanted to talk about in this thread Randomgirl or are you just waiting for more opinions on 'good' or 'bad'?
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