MashedPotatoes Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 So I've been interested in this girl for the past 2 months or so. I posted a thread a few weeks ago about this same girl and wanted to update my current situation. Long story short, I met a girl, she showed several signs of interest, got her number, asked her out with her responding "i'm not seeing anyone now, there's a reason why i'm not currently dating, but let's hang out no pressure...", went on a "date"...dinner followed by movie at my place. Now, about the "date." I invited her out to eat at a wine bar/restaurant that's on the retail floor of the building where I live and watch a movie (Up, the pixar movie) that she mentioned a few days earlier that she wanted to watch. Dinner went well...conversation was flowing, laughter was had...I definitely enjoyed myself and I'm pretty sure she did as well. Things got a little weird when it came time to pay the check. When I insisted on paying she went on to say "I thought we were just hanging out as fr, fr, fr...nevermind" She started to blush when she stuttered saying, what I can only assume, as "friend." (She didn't actually say it). At this point, I figured she wouldn't want to watch the movie and just leav after dinner. Surprisingly she still wanted to watch the movie but could only watch about 45 min of it because she had to pick her sister up from work. As we start heading for the front door, she said "oh, you don't have to walk me to my car." It was close to midnight and I live in Downtown LA so I was going to walk her to her car no matter what. Once we reach her car, we hug, she drives off and she texts me about 30 min later "Thanks for dinner and half a movie lol. I need to borrow it!" I saw her again the next day at the coffee house that we both frequent and we talked for a while before I had to leave. I left for a 3 week vacation in Paris the next day (currently writing this post at a cafe next to Notre Dame . She knows that I'm on vacay btw. Soooo....opinions guys and gals. Should I have made a move while watching the movie? She knows that I'm interested, we barely know each other and she comes over to my place to watch a movie the first time we hang out one on on? I pretty certain she's interested as well, but sending some mixed signals? Damn, I just rambled on and on. Any input is greatly appreciated.
FitChick Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 Give her time to miss you. Sounds like she may come around emotionally. When you return, get together to tell her all about your trip and you will seem exciting and glamorous to her.
HughHardcastle Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 I am by no means an expert, but I think she likes you. If she didn't, she wouldn't have sent you back a text 30 minutes after leaving. I agree with the poster above me. Contact her once you get back (and hope she hasn't found anyone while you're gone!), and you've got a great in to talk about your adventures, which will probably seem cool to her.
Author MashedPotatoes Posted December 20, 2011 Author Posted December 20, 2011 Thanks for the advice. Question though...should I have made a move during the movie after what she said (or didn't say) at the end of our dinner?
xpaperxcutx Posted December 20, 2011 Posted December 20, 2011 I think you should enjoy your vacav ( its freaking paris!!) And worry about whrn you're actually back in the city of angels. Have a bagel or a baguette, just don't stress out over a date.
thatone Posted December 20, 2011 Posted December 20, 2011 Thanks for the advice. Question though...should I have made a move during the movie after what she said (or didn't say) at the end of our dinner? yes, you ALWAYS should. and if you get anything other than acceptance of those moves you should write her off and move on right then and there. there is no good that can come from being hesitant.
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