lightx Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 So me and my Ex girlfriend broke up about a Month and half ago. When we broke up she said that we might as well not talk to each other no more and just ignore each other at our job since we don't talk to each other at all. After she stated that then she said If I wanted to talk to her then I should come to her if I want to talk to her or make plans to do things together that the ball is in my court and my move... Ok, So a month went by and we really haven't spoken to each other at all. So I went up to her and I said " can we talk she " She says then back " What...? " So I said back " I was wondering if we could be friends ? " She then replied " Us not talking has been working up to this point and its best we stay like this." I just shaked my head and simply said ok with out hesitation. Now Note she said if I wanted to talk to her again the ball was in my court, right. When she was speaking to me she had this lite smile on her face like she was enjoying this o_O! Ever since that day She's been walking past my department and even at times looking down my hall trying to act like she don't know I see her.... This girl is a piece of work! What do you guys think ?
cerridwen Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 Well, she sounds mean. But in this way she's right: Not talking for awhile/ever would be best. And it CERTAINLY would be best for you right now. Some people need to feel as though the "upper hand" is theirs. The best reaction, the healthiest for you (and most maddening for that type) is indifference. Cultivate it.
Chi townD Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 next time she walks down your department with a smug smile on her face, flip her the bird... Seriously, just ignore her. Screw her and her high an mighty attitude. Move on, go on some dates.
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