aqua_world Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 so, i m very blessed by god. he gave me everything i need and i m very grateful for things i have. but this whole 2011 has been terrible for me. i was working with this guy ... he is extremely shy, reserved guy. but he opens up with me and i m very sure that he has this thing for me from beginning . so i got attracted too. we got closer and talk well and we both have feelings. i asked him out and he keeps saying "we will see" even for him to come to my cube in office. but he told about this to his friends, they act so weird around me. and i am like 100000% sure he does have something for me. he checks me out sometimes. he acts as if he wants to avoid me sometimes. but someother days he is just hopeless around me. i do have feelings for him. i was in self denial saying - i m bored , he is nt good blah blah blah..but nuthing works. i think of him alllllll the time. morning through night. even i dream about him. now we both r on vacation, and i miss him, but i keep fantacising about him all day. what wd we talk, what wd we say, how he smiles, how wd it be if i m a relation blah blah. sometimes sooo much of physical intimacy craving. when i shop i look for things that i think he may like etc etc. Its been 6 months but i still didnt get anywhere. he still shows the same feelings. But its NOT he is being just nice. I can see a HUGE difference. But may be he doesnt want to pursue anything with a coworker. And we have had a misunderstanding in between aswell. so i dont know. what to do ? i just feel soo sucky and unappreciative of what i have. i have to run from my own life.
louise_23 Posted December 18, 2011 Posted December 18, 2011 so, i m very blessed by god. he gave me everything i need and i m very grateful for things i have. but this whole 2011 has been terrible for me. i was working with this guy ... he is extremely shy, reserved guy. but he opens up with me and i m very sure that he has this thing for me from beginning . so i got attracted too. we got closer and talk well and we both have feelings. i asked him out and he keeps saying "we will see" even for him to come to my cube in office. but he told about this to his friends, they act so weird around me. and i am like 100000% sure he does have something for me. he checks me out sometimes. he acts as if he wants to avoid me sometimes. but someother days he is just hopeless around me. i do have feelings for him. i was in self denial saying - i m bored , he is nt good blah blah blah..but nuthing works. i think of him alllllll the time. morning through night. even i dream about him. now we both r on vacation, and i miss him, but i keep fantacising about him all day. what wd we talk, what wd we say, how he smiles, how wd it be if i m a relation blah blah. sometimes sooo much of physical intimacy craving. when i shop i look for things that i think he may like etc etc. Its been 6 months but i still didnt get anywhere. he still shows the same feelings. But its NOT he is being just nice. I can see a HUGE difference. But may be he doesnt want to pursue anything with a coworker. And we have had a misunderstanding in between aswell. so i dont know. what to do ? i just feel soo sucky and unappreciative of what i have. i have to run from my own life. hmmm.... i dont doubt the guy is nice, but you sound like you're idealising him a bit. i say, if he keeps saying ''we will see'' and all that, dont ask him anymore. sounds like he's playing hard to get, in which case acting like you dont care will eventually get him to stop messing about. failing that, he's not interested.
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