butterflyneha2503 Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 I think its not working, me and my husband know each other since 10 years we got married in 2006, he and one of his colleague had an affair in 2008 which lasted for 6 months. Somehow i found it and he promised me that he is no more with her and i should forgive him. But I was emotionally hurt and broke, I tried to distract myself as i wanted to handle the situation and was not ready for divorce. In 2010 I went to USA alone and met with a guy who loved and cared about me but I was not so serious to get into a realtionship with him but when i came back from USA in 2011 I realized my husband lost my love completely and I dont want to live with him. I feel bad about my husband bcoz now he loves me a lot and i dont. I tried to love him back but its not working. I need help, not able to decide whats best for me and everyone in my life.
Philosoraptor Posted December 19, 2011 Posted December 19, 2011 You were too broken from the affair to trust him again. It is natural and understandable. You just need to be honest with him and say that you would like a divorce as you do not feel the way you need to feel in order to maintain a relationship with him.
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