irc333 Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 I was wondering, do some people, let's say guys.....will say to a woman he likes, 'Hey, my friend is having a BBQ at his place tonight, care to join us?" And, he tries to get her to come to the event, she does, and he gets to know her in that setting, and ask her out on an official date later. Is this more common, than straight up asking a woman out first off? So that way, it isn't as off-putting?
Dust Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 Take what ever approach you are feeling will work best. For me this actualy sounds fun so a girl would want to say yes. Also it is low pressure so if things don't work out you havn't even spent money or effort really. Plus you could play the good old drinking game "lets drink till our clothes come off."
Eve Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 Yeah, I am familiar with the way of doing things which you describe, why? Has someone asked you to go to a BBQ or something? Take care, Eve x
mammamia1 Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 A guy I knew did that... after the BBQ, he immediately fell in friendzone. Even though he asked me out on a date later, we only went as friends and he'll forever remain friends. I'm not sure if it's because the 1st date shaped my thinking in that way, but that's something to consider
Dust Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 A guy I knew did that... after the BBQ, he immediately fell in friendzone. Even though he asked me out on a date later, we only went as friends and he'll forever remain friends. I'm not sure if it's because the 1st date shaped my thinking in that way, but that's something to consider Well did he even try to kiss you? Did he make any moves? If he made no moves maybe it was just to friendly and approach.
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