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So I took everyone's advice and took the initiative of giving him my number. We've been texting nonstop all night. I can assure everyone that while we did text there were no one liners from either of us. And yes, he finally asked me out. He told me he was new at this and hadn't known when was the atppropriate time to ask me out. He was also understanding to take a rain check until I get my work schedule figured out. So all in all, he was intetested.

 

Yea! That's great news!!!

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So I took everyone's advice and took the initiative of giving him my number. We've been texting nonstop all night. I can assure everyone that while we did text there were no one liners from either of us. And yes, he finally asked me out. He told me he was new at this and hadn't known when was the atppropriate time to ask me out. He was also understanding to take a rain check until I get my work schedule figured out. So all in all, he was intetested.

 

Yay!!!!!!!! :)

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So I took everyone's advice and took the initiative of giving him my number. We've been texting nonstop all night. I can assure everyone that while we did text there were no one liners from either of us. And yes, he finally asked me out. He told me he was new at this and hadn't known when was the atppropriate time to ask me out. He was also understanding to take a rain check until I get my work schedule figured out. So all in all, he was intetested.

 

That's awesome!! I'm happy for you.

 

It goes to show that some men do need a little help and can be clueless. Being one of them I would suggest to make your intentions known to him. If the date goes well and it ends with him not setting up the next date seriously prepare yourself to say, "I had a wonderful time tonight and look forward to seeing you again soon" or something like that. You might have to carry half the weight for awhile. Good Luck.

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Haha thanks guys. Apparently he had wanted to call ( first time a gy who isn't reluctant to pick up the phone) bt I had accidentally given him the wrong number.

 

I dnont disagree that that he's slightly clueless, but at the same time I don't think he wanted to overstep boundaries and make me feel uncomfortable. In fact he knew I have q very busy work schedule and hes being patient just so he can accommodate me.

 

Personally I also do think tye problem lies with me. I tend to be impatient as a person. Its a little difficult for me to take it slow because I'm incredibly prone to getting frutrated if things don't go my way. But I'm trying to place a little more self-control on myself.

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