Sugarkane Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 It begs the question: why are people so willing to date someone, who hasn't even broken up with their ex yet?
Buttercup84 Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 Makes them feel special that that person is willing to make such a big change for them. I would never date anyone like that because * They might do that to me * Going from one relationship to another isn't healthy * Even if I don't know his girlfriend , I would feel horrible . If he feels the same about me 6 months down the track we could go on a date .
coltsfan1 Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 Makes them feel special that that person is willing to make such a big change for them. I would never date anyone like that because * They might do that to me * Going from one relationship to another isn't healthy * Even if I don't know his girlfriend , I would feel horrible . If he feels the same about me 6 months down the track we could go on a date . as someone who was cheated on I couldn't have said it better myself.
Mcnulty Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 He was my friend and I know him quite well...getting into his mindset, he'll have thought, she is not getting what she needs from him,(me) she's never with him, I always thought he was a wanderer/player, so don't think he'll be that bothered if i steal his gf...that's the truth. he didn't really know me that well...no contact with him for months, worked in the same school as him, male bravado talking about women. The only person she could get with on this earth, who could give her some dirt so she could move on and possibly hate me was him...and she found him...that's fate!! I'm not a player and she kept me at a distance screwing with my head for months leading to the end of the relationship...she will have told him what she told her friends and family...untruths...she loves drama and always played the victim..I never got my say...cest la vie.
shayla Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 In my case, the other woman was a new widow, so she was desperate for a man at any cost and did not care about stomping on anyone to get a man. She claimed that she did not know about me but spent the next 2 months after she did find out from me posting on her facebook about how i lost and she won. She thinks that she is special and that he would never treat her the way he treated me. Those are the reasons I can see for the things she did.
stunned8165 Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 It begs the question: why are people so willing to date someone, who hasn't even broken up with their ex yet? Because they are desperate, needy losers will no self worth, character or self respect... There "love tank" always has, and always will be empty. They will repeat the same vicious cycle unless they wake up which in my ex's case, she won't wake up.
fificremefarben Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 I hope the Other Woman/ Man is not exempt from getting their own particular karma... This girl knew about me, even offered to meet with me for coffee (back when they were just "friends"). I wonder if she'll ever know/care how much she (and he) hurt me.
LZ2000 Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 I told my ex I will be away for a month for some personal business I have to take care of, and I came back 1 month and 1 week later only to see her with another man. My ex never emailed me or bothered to contact me when I was away.
ZimboGon Posted December 17, 2011 Posted December 17, 2011 Makes them feel special that that person is willing to make such a big change for them. I would never date anyone like that because * They might do that to me * Going from one relationship to another isn't healthy * Even if I don't know his girlfriend , I would feel horrible . If he feels the same about me 6 months down the track we could go on a date . Oh how that made my stomach sink. He shouldn't feel special at all for taking her away from me... Whenever i see him he smirks at me.
Author Sugarkane Posted December 18, 2011 Author Posted December 18, 2011 Oh how that made my stomach sink. He shouldn't feel special at all for taking her away from me... Whenever i see him he smirks at me. People don't change. He'll probably cheat on her eventually.
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