Should You stop wanting the Girls you're attracted to Once you notice most dont likeu

[quietGuy13]

Hello

i'm male age 30s, have never had a GF . (Not because i'm only chasing girls i like. I dont even get girls i dont like. i'm loner /friendless/and don't know how to meet girls)

 

ANyways, I love sexy beautiful/cute girls/women. I always see tons of them downtown and since it's a town with colleges and universities, there's many beautiful girls.

 

ANyways, I notice from reading, reading websites, reading forums, general knkowdlege in TV shows and Magazines and hearsay, i notice that basically I'm not the type of guy women desire. Those girls that i like, typcailly go for Playboys or smart nerd guys, or outgoing talkative guys..or guys with great careers.

 

I'm not good looking, not smart, not successful. And i'm not cool, not hip, not fashionable. And I have speaking disabilities too. These girls/women will never like me.

 

But I like them, it's not my fault.. that's just the way it is.

But since chances of any of them liking them is about 0%, should i just stop wanting and dreaming of having a girl like that?

[ZimboGon]

There is a person out there for everyone.

[quietGuy13]

There is a person out there for everyone.

Can you prove that?

The only girl's that i iiget(as friends)(and they're few)are never interested in me as a BF and usually they already have BFs so they don't even want to be my friend plus they're foreign.

 

The latest one was foreign and she already returned to her country. If you're theory was right, then if she was the one for me, then she would stay or contact me but i guess she was not the one. So that means I always just meet the girls who are not the one for me??

 

that sucks

[ZimboGon]

Well, you say you only like beautiful/sexy women. With those high standards, you are setting yourself up to fail and you could miss out on some genuinely sweet and nice women.

[Seneca]

Can you prove that?

 

Yep. You can get beautiful girls. Just the mental attitude you need to work on.

 

With the negative way you think it's obvious you will never get those beautiful girls.

Edited December 16, 2011 by Seneca

[YaOldBuckaroo]

Hello

i'm male age 30s, have never had a GF . (Not because i'm only chasing girls i like. I dont even get girls i dont like. i'm loner /friendless/and don't know how to meet girls)

 

ANyways, I love sexy beautiful/cute girls/women. I always see tons of them downtown and since it's a town with colleges and universities, there's many beautiful girls.

 

ANyways, I notice from reading, reading websites, reading forums, general knkowdlege in TV shows and Magazines and hearsay, i notice that basically I'm not the type of guy women desire. Those girls that i like, typcailly go for Playboys or smart nerd guys, or outgoing talkative guys..or guys with great careers.

 

I'm not good looking, not smart, not successful. And i'm not cool, not hip, not fashionable. And I have speaking disabilities too. These girls/women will never like me.

 

But I like them, it's not my fault.. that's just the way it is.

But since chances of any of them liking them is about 0%, should i just stop wanting and dreaming of having a girl like that?

 

Hey quietGuy13

 

I've seen guys in wheel chairs that stutter get mediocre to pretty good girls. Though having good looks would definitely help you out with the initial interaction you have with a girl, it takes a lot more than that to actually make the girl attracted to you.

 

What is girls really want is a guy of confidence and good social value. You need to identify what it is that makes you shy, accept it, and move on. They'll only hinder you from achieving your goals of getting a gal round your arm.

 

Here's a helpful article with great info for attracting females:

 

http://www.scribd.com/doc/4654457/Attract-Women-With-4-Routines-From-Black-Belt-Seduction

 

And here's one that'll help you overcome shyness:

 

http://www.blackbeltseduction.com/blog/archives/471

 

This info plus more helped me improve my game, and Im sure it can do the same for you brother.

 

Max