Feanor Posted December 15, 2011 Posted December 15, 2011 (edited) Hi, I've been doing the online dating thing and I met this girl. But all she wants to do is text, every time I've tried to meet up with her she's had some excuses. She goes out partying with her friends all the time, she texted me a few days ago when she was out at the bars with some friends just to say hello. Last week I asked her if she wanted to hang out over the weekend and she told me she was studying and wouldn't be available for at least two weeks. Then that same weekend she ends up going out drinking with one of her friends. This morning she's sending me texts asking about my religious views and all kinds of random stuff. Eventually I told her that this whole texting back and forth for weeks on end was a waste of time and I'm trying to meet people in person. She sent me this reply talking about how her grandmother died a month ago and her uncle had a heart attack today and obviously I'm not on her list of priorities, basically making me feel like a complete a**hole. I'm sitting here like 'WTF!?' I've never even met this girl in person. Edited December 15, 2011 by Feanor
azsinglegal Posted December 15, 2011 Posted December 15, 2011 Move onto the next one. She either isn't interested enough to meet you or is seeing someone and keeping you on the side. Besides, ask yourself, why would you want to be involved with someone who's only way of communicating is a text message?
xpaperxcutx Posted December 15, 2011 Posted December 15, 2011 People lik her does this for the ego boost. They like the fact you're there at the touch of a button but when an actual meetup is just inconvenient. Lose her number even if she doesn't lose yours.chances are she will text yo sometime in the future but by then you 'll just be like " who the f is this?"
ShannonMI Posted December 15, 2011 Posted December 15, 2011 Hi, I've been doing the online dating thing and I met this girl. But all she wants to do is text, every time I've tried to meet up with her she's had some excuses. She goes out partying with her friends all the time, she texted me a few days ago when she was out at the bars with some friends just to say hello. Last week I asked her if she wanted to hang out over the weekend and she told me she was studying and wouldn't be available for at least two weeks. Then that same weekend she ends up going out drinking with one of her friends. This morning she's sending me texts asking about my religious views and all kinds of random stuff. Eventually I told her that this whole texting back and forth for weeks on end was a waste of time and I'm trying to meet people in person. She sent me this reply talking about how her grandmother died a month ago and her uncle had a heart attack today and obviously I'm not on her list of priorities, basically making me feel like a complete a**hole. I'm sitting here like 'WTF!?' I've never even met this girl in person. Ugh!! NEXT!!! :rolleyes:She can't even meet you in person and when you tell her you aren't into a texting relationship and you want to meet her, she guilt trips you. No good. She hides behind her cell phone to communicate with you. Imagine trying to have a normal relationship with her. You wouldn't. I would move on from this one.
Author Feanor Posted December 15, 2011 Author Posted December 15, 2011 yeah thanks for the advice, pretty much how I see it too. The way she guilt tripped me was definitely too much. Thanks for the advice y'all.
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