Soxfaninfl Posted December 15, 2011 Posted December 15, 2011 Has anyone here ever gotten back together with their ex-wife or ex-husband? How long we're your apart. We're you able to get that love back that you once felt for that person after you fell out of love?
lilyblue Posted December 15, 2011 Posted December 15, 2011 My exboyfriend did. They tried once while separated and ended it quickly. Now they're divorced and he left me for her and they've been together 3 months.
CM2009 Posted December 18, 2011 Posted December 18, 2011 Well one of female friends and her husband are trying, I wish the best for them. I've thought about getting back but I just moved to another coast for a new job, she hit me up outta the blue recently and it brought up some old feelings. But I hope for best of your going through it....
Author Soxfaninfl Posted December 19, 2011 Author Posted December 19, 2011 Well one of female friends and her husband are trying, I wish the best for them. I've thought about getting back but I just moved to another coast for a new job, she hit me up outta the blue recently and it brought up some old feelings. But I hope for best of your going through it.... No, I'm not going through it. Maybe someday I hope. God only knows. I wish I was, but she's with another man now. Her rebound from our divorce. We have a son together, and I miss him when he is with her. I wish we were together as a family again. I miss that!
Clep Posted December 20, 2011 Posted December 20, 2011 My guy left three times. He regretted it all three times. Ten months seemed to be the magic number for him. He would leave for ten months, and then we would reconcile for ten months before he would leave again. I just went on with my life when he would leave, and seriously thought each time that it was the last time. I thought I might end up marrying the first guy I got together with after he left. I was really happy with him, but the pull you speak of to have my family intact was very strong. Glad to say now that we reconciled two years ago and all is well. I have learned to never say never, to not project into the future and to live my life and keep my goals going no matter what. I hope it goes well for you.
CM2009 Posted December 21, 2011 Posted December 21, 2011 I totally get how ur feeling I don't know how fresh it is but it does get better in time it did for me now I'm able to talk to her and not get upset at her, we can talk now as friends and after doing some thinking I think that's where I want things to stay at the moment. I guess it's the time of the season esp when ur single, it's rough out there. Just try ur best to get through and this to sha'll pass...
Author Soxfaninfl Posted December 21, 2011 Author Posted December 21, 2011 (edited) I totally get how ur feeling I don't know how fresh it is but it does get better in time it did for me now I'm able to talk to her and not get upset at her, we can talk now as friends and after doing some thinking I think that's where I want things to stay at the moment. I guess it's the time of the season esp when ur single, it's rough out there. Just try ur best to get through and this to sha'll pass... Our divorce was final in September of 2011. She asked for the divorce in January of 2010 and told me she didn't love me anymore. I moved out in March of 2010 to give her space and were separated for a year. I tried to reconcile with her while separated many times, but she refused counseling and every attempt to get back together. I dated a women for a couple of months after I was separated for 10 months, but I ended it because I was still in love with my wife. I moved back in in march on 2011 against her wishes. We barley spoke while we lived together until October. I found out after I moved in that she was with another man. I'm dating right now, but my relationship is fizzling out. I do miss her some times and think of the good times, but then I get angry at times for what she has done. She cost me almost 10,000 in the divorce, and tried to make it so I only saw my son every other weekend. I was able to get 50% joint and physical custody of our son. We still don't speak to each other. We only speak via email when it concerns our son, and that is all we talk about. I choose not to speak to her. She said maybe we could be friends in 5 years when we were in counseling before I moved out (only went to two sessions), and I told her we will never be friends. I stated that you don't get to have it your way. I'm either in your life as your husband or nothing at all. Edited December 21, 2011 by Soxfaninfl 1
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