soserious1 Posted December 18, 2011 Posted December 18, 2011 LOL. You're lucky you're not a man, if a man spoke like you do he'd get the women and sissy-men chasing him off the forum with pitchforks and torches. But you, you're empowered ma'am. Are you one of those wealthy broads that go sex touring to greece and jamaica ? I don't consider myself "empowered" no, I've merely looked at what I'm willing to give to a relationship & concluded that I'm not willing to give up much of anything save for a bit of shared pleasure. I see plenty of men here expressing similar POV when it comes to marriage or "traditional relationships" I'm not telling other people how to conduct their relationships, nor am I denigrating them for making choices different from mine. I'm merely describing why casual hookups work for me. And no, while I'm not adverse to a hookup while traveling, I don't go on trips specifically to "sex tour" there's plenty of domestic dick to be had right here in the good old USA.
Negative Nancy Posted January 15, 2012 Posted January 15, 2012 Don't believe it! People are still going out on dates and having serious relationships. People are still getting married. It's true that casual hookups are more common than they used to be, but they're not replacing committed relationships. If you don't want casual sex, then don't have it. There are plenty of people your age who want to be in a monogamous relationship. i agree. i have nothing against hookups, different strokes and all that, but it's just making me feel fundamentally happier and more secure to be in a serious LTR with my partner in crime. hooking up and ONS just leave you feeling empty.
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