TryingToStayStrong Posted May 30, 2004 Posted May 30, 2004 My girlfriend told me that she needed a break about 3 weeks ago. Since then she has been partying a lot and getting drunk. I think she felt like I held her down before and she is making up for lost time. She has been very nice to me and tells me that she loves me and we talk a few times a week. I also know that she hasn't hooked up with any other guys. I would love to share this time in her life with her, she is only 17. We were togther for 2 1/2 years. Over time will she grow out of this phase and want to be together again or am I done? If anyone knows from experience, let me know. Thanks!!!
hurtingandconfused Posted May 30, 2004 Posted May 30, 2004 Over time will she grow out of this phase and want to be together again or am I done? You are done.
Mjfru Posted May 30, 2004 Posted May 30, 2004 Well my ex and I have been split up for about 2 weeks now. I also feel like I was just holding her down because she is young (17 also) and just wanted to party and flirt around. I don't know though. We had a wonderful relationship until the last few months where we never got to spend time together and we always fought. She now tells me that she loves me a little still, and our relationship was wonderful. She said that if the time is right, she would love to be with me again. But right now I am with another girl. One of her friends actaully. Things are ok between us but I am still in love with my ex. But to answer your question I feel that you still may have a chance in the future. I feel that in the future I may also get another chance, but time will tell. If she says that she loves you still, then you may have a chance when she gets over having the whole party feel and she may want someone steady, and that is where you come in. Keep your head up and like I said before, time will tell.
beautiful Posted June 1, 2004 Posted June 1, 2004 She is 17? and you been dating for 2.5 years? that makes her what 14.5? How old are you? My goodness she is a child! What do you expect? If I was 17 I be partying as well and certainly not in a so called relationship. She is doing what a 17 year old should do. How in the world do you expect a 17 year old to have a healthy serious relationship? What planet are you from?
TryingToStayStrong Posted June 1, 2004 Posted June 1, 2004 We met in high school, I was a senior and she was a freshman. We were inseparable for 2.5 years, and then she broke up with me around 3 weeks ago. We were eachothers 1st loves. I was just wondering if there was any chance of a future for us. We still talk and hang out, but I don't think I should tell her how I feel yet. I think for now she needs space, and only time will tell.
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