Mark1 Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 -I have a 3rd date tomorrow with a woman -I am 22, she is 32, so I know she isn't looking for a relationship with someone 10 years young; I know I'm not -We have kissed, so I know she doesn't just see me as a friend -I don't have a place of my own (long story); so how do I get back to her place after the date? She has mentioned (on the previous 2 dates) meeting her roommate, or renting a movie one night, but I don't really know how to escalate it to her place. Also, this is a lunch date, so that might make it more difficult. Thanks
Floridaman Posted December 21, 2011 Posted December 21, 2011 -I have a 3rd date tomorrow with a woman -I am 22, she is 32, so I know she isn't looking for a relationship with someone 10 years young; I know I'm not -We have kissed, so I know she doesn't just see me as a friend -I don't have a place of my own (long story); so how do I get back to her place after the date? She has mentioned (on the previous 2 dates) meeting her roommate, or renting a movie one night, but I don't really know how to escalate it to her place. Also, this is a lunch date, so that might make it more difficult. Thanks Mark, Just saw this thread. Realize you've likely gone out with her already, but personally, I wouldn't be "planning" or "expecting" to take her home or to your place. Just let things proceed naturally. Please don't put a lot of pressure on yourself. If this one doesn't work, tell yourself, "...no biggie. There'll be others." Women don't like guys that are nervous. They like confident guys, guys that are comfortable with themselves, their lives, the world and others. If it seems right, suggest going home to watch a movie or something. That's what I tried to do -- not build my hopes up and think this was "the one." If you two date more, and you two like each other and feelings build, you'll know it's right. Hope this helped and good luck.
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