Codez Posted December 13, 2011 Posted December 13, 2011 Sometimes we have to look passed the pain and realize that a chain of events happened so that this particular relationship WOULDN'T work out. Those chain of events didn't happen so that it WOULD work out. Understand that people come in and go out of your life to teach you a lesson, to help you grow as a human being. Good or Bad, that relationship taught you something. Everyone keeps worrying that they will never find someone like that person again. But in reality, you are the person you need to find. Find the you that makes you, you. The you that you love, because when you find you, you will find the person that reflects and amplifies the you, you prefer to be. When you find the person the reflects and gives you more of who you are, and you give them more of who they are, you'll know that they are the one for you and vice versa. After a breakup, we need to step back and let all that emotional hurt and pain fade away so we can be aware of what we truly feel and who we truly are. A lot of what we feel that hurts so much is loneliness and betrayal. "How could he/she do that to me after what we said to each other, I feel so betrayed" Someone who without a doubt loves you with their HEART (yes there is emotion actually contained within the heart, research it), not their MIND, will not betray you. Take a step back and look at it for what it is and make it your goal to heal and make it your goal to find the right person for you, in time. Because the person that broke your heart is not the right one for you (obviously). The person that holds you SO DEARLY in their *heart* would NEVER even THINK about putting you through this hurt. If you maintain this state of being (hurt and closed down), you are closing yourself to all the possibilities and opportunities that this broken relationship will lead you to. Without this relationship happening, maybe you wouldn't have starting painting, or playing an instrument to heal yourself. Maybe you wouldn't have taken that yoga class that introduced you into a new lifestyle, that made you go to a health class in which introduced you to this really cool new person who becomes your new interest. The point is, say yes to opportunity. Especially now, go and do it. Don't hold back, become the person you want to be.
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